This is my profile text that is on FetLife and it includes essential information about me. You still have to check the rest of my profile on FetLife, if you want to become my sub.

Let's start with the limits because if they apply to you, there is NO REASON for you to try to date me. I am NOT looking to date any of these:

• Sissies
• Crossdressers (I do like the idea of dating a girl who has a cock)
• Smokers
• People who are addicted to any drugs (coffee included)
• Conservatives
• Switches
• Dominants
• Bulls, and ANYONE WHO IS NOT SUBMISSIVE or who live a double life (dom as a role on the profile and secretly telling me in private they are subs)
• People who are older than 40
• People who have a fetish of eating c*m
• People wearing animal costume like dog masks, tails, ears
• Men in latex, subs wearing masks in bed... home invader style? I love home invasion movies but I don't want to fuck someone dressed like that. If you wear that in a costume party it, would be acceptable
• People who use pascifiers or wear diapers.
• People who want to "see" if they are into femdom or not.

Useless men will always find a way of being useless, now they use Chat GPT to send boring messages since they have no personality or writing skills. I am just letting them know that I am aware and that those robotic messages will not get them an answer.

Hey there!

I am Juliana. It's always nice to make friends that are local or that live at a country that I will be at. But even for friendship I would like to see the face of whom I would be speaking with, right on your first message/chat request.

Back to dating...

I am looking for a relationship that will last forever so, naturally, I am picky regarding the person I am looking for. Just being a sub is not enough, I have to find you physically attractive, I want to admire you for your values and how you act and we need to have interests in common to share a life with. This means I am looking for a relationship with someone who is Caucasian or East asian, in a healthy weight, around 1,75 m or taller, endowment wise, not smaller than 14 cm. Let me know in your first message that you fit my criteria for looks. Please don't take this as me being judgmental - I hope people will love someone who loves them back as they are. It is just that I have to feel attracted to my sub.

I am not here to help you explore your sub side: you have to know that you are a sub or you are not good enough for me.
In my opinion people who say they are dominant outside of dating are probably dicks. There is no such thing as being dominant at work, as there is an inherent power discrepancy and people at work don't really get to say "no", as we need jobs to survive. With friendship it is similar, do people get consent from friends to be dominant towards them? Consent is the key. So please no "dominant in another area or areas of life" kind of people. Just treat people as equals and have basic ethics.

I am a cougar, I can go for people a bit older than me, but if you are some years younger than me, and into some mommy/taboo stuff, that might be something we can explore, if we are in a relationship, that is.

I take my physical and mental health seriously and expect you do too. Please be mentaly stable. I know how to keep a place clean and organized, and I expect those qualities from you.

If you abuse any drugs, including natural ones (even coffee), or you self medicate because you do not want to work on your mental issues, I cannot be your Domme. I do not want someone who is high often, nor anyone who smokes anything (marijuana included) or is addicted to any drugs such as nicotine, Xanax, alcohol or coffee... maybe you got the idea. Smoking anything is not something I allow my sub to do... or snorting drugs, for that matter haha

I noticed that in the BDSM community there is a lot of mental health struggle, and that many subs seem to have neurodevelopmental disorders (being autistic or having ADHD) or be dyslexic. If any of that is your case, which you should inform me in your first message, even if it is just a suspicion, you can only message me if you take care of your mind, put on work to be a great partner, which you might need help from a professional to achieve, see a psychiatrist, psycologist, take medication or do whatever therapy that works for you. A little note for the autistic subs and I know there are a lot of those out there haha I do not appreciate the very direct (rude) type. If people seem to think that that is how you talk, I do not think we would match. I like sweet, calm men who are compassionate and able to show empathy, not only by being a good person but also by being emotionally supportive. I also have to say that poorly written texts really annoy me so I probably would not match with someone who is dyslexic.

I am a petite, curvy Domme from Brazil and I live in Amsterdam but I have a free spirit and some countries in mind I could move to in the future but it could also be that I would live in the Netherlands forever.
I love true crime documentaries, though not the brainless, sensationalist ones and I'm pretty much in general interested in true crime. I am a horror fanatic, cat mamma (they live in Brazil with my family), who can't wait to adopt more kitties when I settle down somewhere. Some of the bands that I love are: Volbeat, Borknagar, The Beach Boys, After Forever, She Wants Revenge, The Birthday Massacre, Blind Guardian, Van Canto and HIM. I am vegan, a progressive and an atheist. I love stand-up comedy and adult cartoons, like The Shivering Truth. and Squidbillies. I love podcasts/listening to stories and audiobooks, jigsaw puzzles, playing boardgames (party ones) and books/reading.
My friends and family know that I'm a Domme.

An example of an ideal quality time with my sub would be to have them run their fingers gently on my back, while we listen to something we like.
Another sweet thing I like to have with my sub, is that he puts lotion on my skin everyday, as a daily, cute, couple thing. You have to enjoy creepy stuff too as I listen and/or watch stuff like this everyday and like to do it with a partner, whenever it is possible, if I am in a relationship.

If you decide to send me a message, be polite, tell me your name, don't use a nickname or username. I'm looking to get to know cool people... Other Progressives, vegans, gamers, metalheads, rock and roll people, goths, rockabilly boys/girls, people that like horror, nerdy people, intellectuals, people to dance rock and roll or Lindy Hop with, compassionate folks, people that have a revolutionary spirit and that believe in a world without borders.

To be my sub you have to have time to talk daily, send 'good morning' and 'good night' messages, show legitimate interest in getting to know me as a person. If I think you are the right person for me, I want us to have calls frequently, even if it is just to say 'good night'. I also want us to have video calls, sometimes. And for you to take initiative, too. I like to tell people what to do but I also want them to show interest and show that they are thinking of me and I like that they tell me how they feel about me.

If I decide to meet you, I want to meet at a decent restaurant of my choice, with good vegan food or we can do something cultural, like playing board games or going to a rock/metal concert. I don't drink alcohol (or soda, or coffee haha) neither I leave my house to meet men for any drinks whatsoever.
I am not interested in any sexual encounters with strangers, and I don't go to the house of people I don't know or host anyone in my home (I have a religious housemate). If you are not able to have a girlfriend at your place or get a hotel, then you are not a suitable sub for me. If I decide to visit you at some point, make sure your place is very clean and organized. And if we are in a serious relationship, we could travel to Brazil one day and you would be welcome in my family's home, to meet my sweetheart of a mother :)