I am male in mid twenties.

Some information about me: Professional, easy going, down to earth, respectful, enjoys having open discussions, and recognizes boundaries. Openbook mostly. I used to be a major introvert, and social anxiety was a constant.

I do enjoy a few hobbies: stargazing, viewing sunsets, hiking, and taking nature walks. I'm also interested in space and technology. Have been searching for auroras for about a year. I enjoy baking occasionally, I'm not very good at it but yeah i try my best hehe.

Seeking to get in touch with some laid-back couples who enjoy introducing new people who are interested in the LS. While not a deal breaker, it would be fantastic if you were new to Hotwife LS. Would love to connect and approach things gradually rather than diving in headfirst; communication is really important. I do have a spot for couples who are into exhibitionism, would love to discuss few kinks if we connect.

Feel free to DM. I would love to talk and take it from there and know the LS better.

My current experience with the LS👇

There's more to hotwifing than just the physical aspect

Where do I begin from,been on reddit and other platforms for quite long time, its only since the past one year or so since I've grown curious about this LS. It all started with some random reddit posts at beginning and then slowly intensifying my curiosity to actually study the whole dynamics of it, not just the physicals aspect of it, yeah there is much more than just penis and vagina in this realm of fun. I went through different forums, blogs, numerous subs on reddit, spend some good amount of time reading posts by actual genuine pairs who are into this LS, I know there are lot who just write things for fun which looks like story straight out of a porno movie and is barely believable. Having said that, this is what I have learnt and analyzed so far after putting in efforts to to understand it, might be wrong as-well at some points but yeah that's life, its a learning process. What fascinates me the most is they could be anyone, from your coworkers, friends maybe a random couple at the bar, they all around.

-- This LS demands and needs one to stick to reality and be sane and think with brains eighty percent of time than thinking with dicks cuz majority of it is heavily dependent on communications and by communication I mean two communication as you gotta give them(hwcpl) clear insights of who you are on the whole. This is not some movie scene where you just jump in and do a WAM BAM good bye mam, no that's not even close to reality, cuz you getting involved with someone who are bonded closely both emotionally, physically and also mentally.

--The way the whole concept has picturized a hw, no they are not meant to be objectified and no they are not just a warm place to stick it in. They are humans, have emotions, have gone through ups and downs while entering, being and while leaving the LS. The emotional stakes are always high. They regular personalities, who have a life, she/he might be a teacher, doctor, nurse and what not who just wants to add some extra fun into their life within some self framed custom boundaries. Every single pair has a different sets defined and that's the beauty of it .

-- Who you are on the whole, your personality, your efforts ,trustworthiness, manners, sanity, aura, maturity with decent amount of attraction factors as a third matters a lot when it comes to getting along. Communication is the real factor, being able to communicate clearly and not letting the opposite couple/hw/single sink into a dilemma is really an important for them to trust as they letting someone outta nowhere to get sooo close to them physically is no joke . They need to sense that safety and security from the third as some might aim to keep their ls private and discrete. Attention to detail and a pair of good listening ears are extremely important. A slightest of discomfort in relation to communication and openness will surely ruin a hwcpls mental peace and fun, no matter good you are in bed.

-- Aside from all the goods you carry downstairs, they would like to know more about you in general, like your hobbies, professional aspirations, or anything else that helps them visualize you quickly.Cuz it takes a lot to trust somebody in current time.

This is what I've analyzed and figured out initially getting my hands onto it, no I haven't bulled or been with a hw couple yet. This purely based on my curiosity to explore this ls and learn about it which began from studying it online. Also at the same time I would be lying if I say I don't intend to be a hwcpl one day in near future, but yeah not without knowing the dynamics of it, even if it take good amount of time. Good things come along with patience and learning. Was also fortunate enough to connect some hw's through many subs, the best one was through this sub. I happened to bump into a nice humble hw here in recent time, we ended up chatting for a decent amount of time now, she is pretty active on this sub. Omg experienced hw's like her are the reason, why the new one's to this LS get to know more. Thanks to her, she explained with sufficient patience about some complete different aspects of hotwifing through experiences. Its not just we talk about this, we spoke about our daily lives and how things happen. Both were able to carry out a decent normal conversation for weeks now. Coming from the city of Toronto where the LS is noticeably good but also challenging when it comes to connecting people even for normal talks sometimes but I get lucky sometimes online people do reach out when I write. All in all. its a great experience to get into it and learn about it from real people and resources. Also would like to ask hws/couples here, Have you ever been that couple who were the first one to introduce a third M/F to this LS? If yes, I would like to know how did I go and what are steps and challenges you went though and how was your overall experience. Sorry if this post was too long. Hope you have a great and healthy life style until we speak again & happy hotwifing.