If you want the sexy stuff, there is another post about that part, but this is more of a documentation of what seems fake, it was an amazing experience for me and hopefully her. I decided to write this because I wanted to see if I could see our flirty messages on Reddit but Reddit got rid of those messages in the data purge. Lame.

So I posted up an ad a little over a year ago before Thanksgiving if anyone wanted to have a date for the holidays. Super random but I travel for work so downtime is rare. So why the heck not?

Posted it up and within a day or two, I got a message. There were some spammers but for some reason, this message stood out. After quick introductions and describing ourselves, I realize this lady is quick and witty and I am keeping up. I must have been eating my brain food those days because not only was she well rounded but she was more interested in conversation rather than me dropping the Tinder-style lines my fellow single men do. Granted, I do much better in a conversation than a swipe-style app. If ladies are reading, I am a solid 7 but I can charm like a solid 9. Men, she was getting all my flirting cues but I was making sure I was being respectful.

Topics discussed were dating past 30, movies, books, music, and then it got flirty. Being that she has a little one, she said she was child-free this Thanksgiving and I mentioned I didn’t have plans.

So she says, “Let's meet up”

I said “hell yeah but I don’t know your area. I can see what's open?”

She says “Don’t trip. I like planning and know a wonderful spot where we can eat. But I have something to admit, are you ok that I am older than you?”

I ponder, but reply, “As long as you don’t mind that I'm much younger than you? I don’t want to ask your age, but what's the gap? This actually makes it more interesting”
Having met her and having an amazing time, I know she was smiling on the side of this message. “It’s a little over 11 Years”. Blood rushes to my brain, did I charm a lady older than me? Spoiler alert, fuck yes I did.

We exchange pictures and people. She was Gorgeous. Loved her skin and couldn’t help but think of the possibilities.

Here’s where things get super hilarious. Ladies, you know what’s super unsexy for us men? Lack of confidence, unprepared, and not having plans. Well, I had the first two down. I know she said yes to a date, so I just have to be genuine. I was prepared, I had mental talking points in case there was a lull moment. But having plans? Well, she said she had that covered. Our date happened on Thanksgiving day, and guess what; most restaurants are CLOSED!

What happened was she felt slightly embarrassed that everything was closed and for the majority, we just walked her local downtown area for over 2 hours. This worked out in both our favors as we learned enough about each other that I was so ready to make out with this gorgeous lady but I kept that urge down.

We discussed the merits of having a long movie, and perfect albums, talked about music shows we have gone to, places we have traveled too, and time never being on our side due to responsibilities we have. She did tell me the story of her sexy task rabbit, but she can tell that story. (I know you are going to read this so I hope that makes you laugh)

We finally found a place to eat. It wasn’t anything special but by then, the food was not the highlight.

Hilariously, after the date the question then became, the fuck do we do? Well, we went to the local Ralphs to get a loaf of chocolate swirl to eat in her car. laughter ensued in her car. Yes, she was my senior and yes I was younger than her previous partners by a decade but we were just having an absolute blast. The date ended in her car just talking and it was ALMOST an awkward goodbye but I asked and went for the kiss.

Now that the kiss was out of the way, there was this sort of relief that came over me. She had let me kiss her and I KNEW I was going to see her again. We parted ways before making plans but I had to see her.

Over the next week, we hella flirted and teased each other over the date through text. Talked about things we would love to do if we hung out again. Well an opportunity came out and I was to go to North Carolina for work. This was only two weeks after having met and hung out but I shot my shot and heck, I work hard, so I said
‘If I get you a plane ticket, would you come out for a few days with me to NC? We can hang out I can work in the morning and since you work remotely, you can work also. “
“Isnt that what basketball players do to their hoes? Get flewd out and hang out and they mostly fuck though?”
“Well, we can hang out…”
She said something along the lines of, I want to fuck if I go and I don’t do impulsive but you are interesting.

What ensued is that when I wasn't working, we were mostly fucking in the hotel room. Jesus, she was wonderful.

I do want to mention that there was so much banter skipped and details omitted. They can stay between us but she knows.