Hello all. Trying my luck finding the right person for me here.

Appearance: 5'9 ~130-135 pounds. Slim but fit and toned. I like to present both masculine or feminine at times. I guess I could describe myself as a nonbinary male. See here for photos of me

Why This Lifestyle?: okay... where do I start... so I guess I feel like this sort of stuff is a bit like a natural extension of the intimate feelings we experience during sex. Generally, in some capacity, one partner is giving control of themselves over to the other.

To receive that control is such a humbling feeling. Knowing I am responsible for the well-being of my partner. Knowing I am being trusted with that responsibility. And to give up that control is so liberating. To be able to trust someone implicitly give yourself over to them is such a wonderful feeling.

What I'm Hoping for in a Relationship I am hoping the above resonates well with you. Its important to me that my partner and I feel desired, appreciated, valued, and respected by each other, for who they are, and not just for sexual pleasure. I'd like us to grow together, support each other, and prioritize each other.

I am very touchy and affectionate. I hope you will be receptive and embrace me. I am eager to please. I'd love to pamper you with massages and cook you meals. I'd like to admire and look up to you. Teach me about the things you love and hold dear, I promise I'll take an interest in them.

About me: People describe me as unusual. I think I am reserved and maybe a bit awkward around new people but I can become very enthusiastic and outgoing when I feel engaged and I click with someone. I am really into mountaineering. Hiking in general. I enjoy the beauty the outdoors has to offer. I go to the gym and run regularly. I am quite fond of books and anime. I enjoy all sorts of music but mostly listen to indie. I'm a big fan of chess and enjoy learning about history. I've gotten into baking lately as well.

Kink Stuff: I am a bit switchy but mostly lean sub. I only really dom on request and its more of an act of service (which I like) than something I specifically enjoy. I'd rather not get too specific in here. I am very interested in certain things and open to most others. Hard limits are anything involving scat, pee, or sharp objects. I'm a bit shy on the subject so don't expect me to discuss it unless you bring it up yourself.

Gender Stuff: I don't really think of myself as a man but I'm not really prepared to commit myself to being a woman. I suppose there are aspects of both that I appreciate. I am masculine presenting in public. My feminine is quite private although I have been exposing it a bit more.

Miscellaneous Things Worth Mentioning:

• You don't have to send a picture to me immediately but please be prepared to verify yourself if we vibe. (I can do this too). I am wary of scammers and catfishers.
• Something I feel like I should clarify since I upset someone previously: searching for my partner has lead to to talk to many, many people. I'm not one to date multiple people at a time but I don't intend to commit myself to anyone until we have met in person.
• I travel a lot for work and get rewarded with extra PTO, so if you aren't local to me, I don't have an issue with taking time off to come visit if we click. Or If I'm lucky maybe my work travels will take me close to you.
• If you DM me, it would be appreciated if you gave me some sort of introduction, or maybe link me to an ad you made yourself. It would save me the trouble of asking you a billion questions

Okay. That is all. Thank you so much for reading!