(Cross posted)

Went out solo for a drink last night. A man I met at the bar should be a lesson to all of the men out there on the hunt.

He was decent looking. Average build. Most women would probably call him pretty average and keep scanning the room.

I was sitting at the bar when he slipped between stools a few feet from me to order a drink. The way he carried himself — confident and comfortable in his own skin but not sauntering like he’s about to throw someone out the front door. The way he spoke to the sassy and totally gorgeous bartender — direct, articulate, polite, charming, witty, disarming, and a dash of je ne sais quoi all at once. His drink order — a mescal old fashioned — confirming he was a man of specific tastes and confident of what he wants.

He tipped generously and was about to slip away from the bar when I slid one stool to the left, opening up a seat for him, looked straight at him and commanded that he sit.

He gave me a quizzical smile, sized me up in a moment, replied with a “yes, ma’am!” and slid onto the stool I previously occupied.

90 minutes later, we were as naked as can be, me impaled on his not-so-average cock, and locked in a kiss that never ended.

He wasn’t corny, sheepish, or arrogant. He wasn’t bragging about his truck. (He doesn’t even have one thank god!)

He was relaxed and authentic and truly comfortable. He was just the right level of bold.

He wasn’t using cheesy lines. He wasn’t whining about life’s challenges. He wasn’t bragging about money.

He was curious about me. He was a great listener. He asked great questions.

If every man out there looking for sex and intimacy were this guy…. I’d probably have a half dozen one night stands every damn day. 😂 10/10 would recommend to every woman I’ve ever met.

This guy is the guy you guys need to be emulating. He has beaten the game.