This is taken from my private Harem Subreddit but figured I wanted this post public.

Why this subreddit exists?

The goal of this subreddit is very simple: have a space to run a digital Harem that works.

Making it work and be fun though I don't think will be so simple! Trying to create an online approximation of a D/s relationship always pales in comparison to the real deal, as I believe everyone involved in the subreddit will know.

But that doesn't mean we can't try 😈

Who is here?

There will be 3 groups of people who I will invite here:

1. Mods/Dom(mes)- Me and my Wife (your Mistress)
2. Applicants and/or my friends- Girlies who are applying to join or are in some capacity my FWB
3. Collared Sluts- Those special Girlies who have earned their Collar and are certified Harem Whores

What we do here?

First, this is a place for me to post all my content, either porn I enjoy or caption, whatever writing I want to do about my sex life or pictures of me, my wife or whoever we're fucking (if they are down!)

As far as your content is concerned, this Harem operates on a weekly basis. Applicants and Collared Sluts will have weekly requirements, tasks or goals.

Some will be static and stay the same week to week, likely some sort of content submission; writing, pictures or something else either to get me off or showcase your submissiveness.

There will also be a weekly rotating task/goal. Something like Outfit Control, Twerking Training, Positional Training etc.

Participation is of course negotiated beforehand and personalized on a case by case basis. The D/s dynamic is about boundaries, defining them, pushing them, submitting within them. I want to know what your boundaries are and you will never be expected to play beyond them.

How will this work?

So far as I can tell, there are 3 dynamics which are very easy in person but can be difficult online that are required for a D/s relationship to work.

1. Reward
2. Punishment
3. Trust

Reward and Punishment are similar. In person, if I wanted to reward you, I'd finger you and if I wanted to punish you, I'd spank you, just as an example.

So how do we make this work online?

Best idea I can come up with is: upon application for the Harem, the submissive will need to provide lists of Rewards and Punishments they are interested in receiving. One of my Sluts loves to do Online RolePlay for instance, she can put that as a reward and I can RP with her.

Punishments will also have to be self inflicted. Perhaps you are aroused in that frustrated way by orgasm denial? We can use that.

The final dynamic however is the most important. Without Trust, I can't know that you are submitting to me, which is what I'm doing this for.

That trust also goes both ways. In submitting, you are also trusting me to not take advantage of you.

Sometimes I trust people quickly, other times it takes longer, and it's not formulaic, it's all vibez. I'm sure you have your own system.

With Trust comes an offer to join the Harem at all, then additional trust to join as an applicant/whore in training.

So let's talk 😈