Finally getting around to updating who we are. Or more specifically who I am. Husband half here of a hotwife-ish couple. We took the plunge over 5 years ago and have had plenty of experiences and encounters to have seen the full gambit of what the lifestyle can offer.

We are in our early 40s and live in the Coastal Virginia area. We still try to play, but with both of us working careers and still having kiddos at home, it's definitely hard to make it happen together. My wife does have her own Reddit and does chat on occasion but took a break from playing for a bit to finish her graduate degree and get her career going.

After a few encounters with couples together she started to let me interact on my own on occasion. We definitely have gone through plenty of fakes and flakes so we try to be a good option for others who are just trying to enjoy that extra bit of life's pleasures. I have had a handful of meetings with sexy couples as a third and enjoy filling that role when we all feel a good connection.

We found it hard to play together so we usually look for solo outings to not let home life get in the way. I enjoy passing on what experiences we have had and providing some advice or just listening to anyone looking to get an answer on this socially taboo subject.

I definitely appreciate all the sexy people on Reddit who help to normalize this incredible life we all try to live, especially those who enjoy capturing and sharing their journeys. I am hoping we can provide some more ourselves.

For all the couples trying to start, good luck and shout if you have any questions. Thanks gif reading this and if you want yo know more DMs are always open.