Hello!

When sending a message, please note:

- Your physical appearance is the least interesting thing to me in the beginning stages. I'd rather hear about your soul - your life, your dreams, your personality, your interests

- A little personalization goes a long way. If you're sending me the same message that you send to everyone, it is unlikely that I will find it interesting enough to respond.

- Overtly sexual first messages don't impress me (in fact, they kind of gross me out)

- I love specifics! For example, if you say "We have a lot in common!" that's great - but I would love to know WHAT we have in common and what specifically made you reach out.

- Give and take is awesome! You tell me about you, you show interest in me

- Before sending a message that says "Are you still looking for a FWB?" please know that the answer is yes - I'm always looking to connect with people in a friendly manner and, if we vibe, it has potential to get to the benefits part. (I am looking for something ongoing, so out-of-towners generally aren't a great fit. I am also not interested in getting involved with someone who is married/attached/sneaking around.)

- I don't meet up right away, so please don't ask - I need to get comfortable chatting with you online first. I move slow. I know that's not for everyone - that's why I'm letting you know now!

-Please be familiar with emotional labor - what it is and how to do your fair share.

I have a more in-depth tutorial about messaging me further down my profile (Title: PSA for messaging me) if you would like further information about sending me a message.

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