I understand this but I don’t. Meeting someone from online is scary but there is many things you can do to be safe. Meet at a public business, get their id send a picture to a friend or save it on your phone, verify them with different forms of social media (make sure it adds up) and probably many more. We could also discuss meeting at someone’s house and to make your self feel safer. Ring cameras, drop the location to a friend, ask a neighbor, check the house on Zillow or from google maps, have alarms set on your phone.

So online dating, online hooking up, whatever you want to call it, it’s all the same, you can try and justify it but it’s all the same. Now people are at different stages in life mentally and emotionally. Everyone is looking for that spark, vibe, connection, that’s called love!! That’s the reason people call “sex” making love, it’s just that, it is love. Sometimes people are good at sharing it and both feeling it. Sometimes both people feel it and share it, sometimes only one of them might feel it and share it, sometimes neither one can feel it but they are trying to share it, sometimes sex is used for bad (almost anything can be). Some people just want to watch the world burn.

So meeting, why would you waste your time not to meet? Why would you waste your emotions not to meet? Why not meet someone? You talk online, how long, a day, a week, a month, longer, why?, is there a time? Are you looking for them to say or do something special? Are you judging them socially, economically, trying to find the right one, it’s much easier in person! if you can meet as in your local, why wait? Tell me I don’t understand it. Me I want to meet as soon as possible, time is money, I don’t want to waste yours or mine. So we go out then you can find out in 20 secs of seeing them and meeting them if you are going want to find try and find that let’s say spark. Maybe we have one date or two before we really start to understand if they are the right one. Some people take a year some take 15 years before they find something they don’t love anymore, some never find a reason not to love them.

Strangers, wtf, why? Everyone at the Bar, your schools, your neighbors, everyone was a stranger at one time, you don’t know 7 billion people!! But we should be trying, them more you know, the safer you are! You know the good ones and the bad ones.

Crazy’s, yes, a lot, almost everyone in the society and time, the more you know the easier it is to find, see and identify them. We are all a little bit of crazy, some more than others, and some crazy is scary to some and others find it a big attraction.

We can give a lot of love, all of us!! Some already have it but are looking for more, some don’t have it and are looking desperately for it, some have had it and are scared of it but they need to feel it and give it, some love long and some love short, some love one and some love more, I don’t care how racists or sexist or what ever you feel, put in the right situation love can prevail, everyone can find an attraction but with some it is stronger.