we'll get it out of the way, I like to PNP. I realize that's a deal breaker for most people, and I get it. for anyone that's still here, I'm a responsible homeowner and homebody that likes kinks and occasional good times, and it would be great to find a regular occasional fwb with similar interests. if you're open to PNP, it would be great if you would let me know, it's an occasional thing for me.

when it comes to sex and kink, I'm heteroflexible or pansexual or whatever, the label doesn't matter much. I am a switch and can be Dom or sub, and while it's not necessary, I find that usually ends up playing a role in things somewhere. I'm open to quite a number of kinks and scenarios, what that is really depends on the person or people involved, but whatever happens the goal is for everyone to enjoy it. super kinky? super cool! tell me about it. slut doesn't have to (shouldn't) be a pejorative.

my biggest non kink interest is travel and scuba diving. I'm a bit of a homebody these days but I used to go out to punk rock shows, tool around Hollywood, go to art openings, etc. I still get out sometimes but not as often. I love dogs and animals in general, but I travel a lot which makes it tough to own. I'm progressive, but can usually find something in common with most people until we get into the conspiracy theorists and Trump fanboys and for some reason fangirls. stand-up comedy should be clever, even if it's silly. currently watching letterkenny. kindness and caring along with smarts and sass is hot. I appreciate creative and subversive, as well as brainless pop culture.

I'm friendly and respectful, and I expect that you are too, but I am not looking for a good girl. You might have been the girl that hung out with all of the bad kids and did all of the shit they did but no one ever knew. you wink at me when you tell a joke that went over someone's head.