https://imgur.com/a/eZHFpiY

I think being a woman, it's a given that I'll receive inappropriate, weird, or gross messages. That being said, it seems like male led couples accounts really break the mold when it comes to inappropriate, cringe messages.

Most of the time the fix is simple. Read the bio that's titled "Read The Fucking Bio", and you'll know exactly what I'm looking for. It will help you to solidify that you're a prime candidate, or it will assist you in self-selecting out of the process. Which helps me immensely because if we aren't a match, I don't want to spend my time on you, and if I have no plans to meet you, why would you want to allocate your time like that? It's a waste. Don't be wasteful.

Anyway, on to this guy...

There's a lot to unpack here, so, buckle in.

1. This guy would like me to sneak into a home where I am not either invited, or a welcome guest. Essentially, an intruder in this kids home... TF...

1a. Wait a minute Liz, he's 20, thats not a kid... He lives under someone else's roof, has to sneak in guests, and isn't eligible to do adult things, like buy beer. That's a kid.

1. "and popping his cherry"

The term "Popping a cherry" is used in the instance of women losing their virginity. "Pop", alludes to the breaking of a women's hymen during sex, which may slightly bleed, evoking the red color of the cherry. So, unless I'm going at him with a strap-on, wrong terminology.

2a. Virginity doesn't exist. It's not a thing.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/virginity-myth

https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/08/losing-virginity-for-good/

https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/s8905g/virginity_doesnt_exist_and_it_never_existed_its_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x

https://www.hercampus.com/school/nottingham/why-virginity-doesnt-exist/

https://gen.medium.com/attention-t-i-theres-no-such-thing-as-virginity-30bcc5020a9c

No, seriously. It's not a thing. It's Toxic. It's inherently sexist. It the concept only exists to control girls and women by the threat of degrading and devaluing, and to prop up patriarchal bullshit. It's 360° of dumpster fire garbage...

1. Dude advertises as a couple. If you're that worried about your 20 year old nephew's sex life, have your 22 year old girlfriend handle business. "Problem" solved.

3a. Don't want your girlfriend to be your nephew's human Jizz Muppet/Masterbation Sock, hire a professional.

3b. Why is the sex life of someone who can't even buy beer even a topic in your head?

3c. Stop being creepy in women's -who you don't know- inboxes and DMs.

1. Couples accounts... Ladies, please run the account, because in my experience here on Reddit, your husband in the lead is creepy, messy, sloppy, and tactless. Do better.