tl;dr — I'm looking for my cute submissive good girl to tie up and tease, either as a play partner or long term. I'm mostly interested in IRL, so driving distance to DFW would be best. I could do online to IRL if we are an amazing match since I'm willing to relocate. I'm looking for someone without kids, and for a serious relationship no kids in the future either.

playtimes — For a normal playtime I want to take care of my girl with snuggles, pets, praises, or whatever helps her feel so close that she wants to give herself to me. Then I like to dress her in a cute outfit, tie her up a bit, and start teasing her. When she's feeling nice and subby for me, I remove some of the outfit, tie her a little tighter, add some toys (like gags or clamps), and keep teasing. If she's into it, it might a good time for her to use her mouth to please me. But if not, I really don't care too much and I'm very happy to focus on playing with her. I mostly want to make her more and more helpless and teased until she's begging me for release. Usually that would use toys like a vibe as I'm not really interested in regular sex. It's not a hard limit, but I'd rather not bother. My fun comes from playing with my girl and seeing her tied, helpless and subby for me.

Being more strict can also be fun sometimes, and I enjoy some brat taming, mild cnc, light pain, predicaments and interrogation scenes. I'm not a sadist so I'm not into causing real pain, but a little can be fun if it helps my girl feel extra helpless and show me how good she can be for me.

day-to-day — Outside of more serious playtimes, I like snuggling with my girl, especially with her feeling subby, and some light bondage can make it even better. I also like to have some rules and protocols so my girl never has to guess what she could be doing to make me happy. Obeying the rules gives me a chance to praise her. Breaking the rules gives her a chance to be bratty if that's what she wants, but hopefully not too often.

me — 6'0", 160lbs, fit, handsome/cute, bearded, childfree, never married

I'm a software developer, and as you might expect, I'm a bit of a nerd and definitely an introvert. I also live that frugal life and am a bit of a minimalist. Staying fit is important to me so I lift weights and even do cardio which I hate. I love to take walks in nature and listen to podcasts when its not too hot outside. But mostly I'm happy being a homebody watching TV/movies, reading, playing games, and snuggling with my good girl.

you — under 40ish, cis female, single, fit (bonus for flexible), childfree

You are a capable adult who can manage her own life. You take care of yourself, both mentally and physically, and you enjoy looking good for your partner. You can be happy even if you're not constantly busy and you enjoy your downtime. But to feel fully relaxed, you'd love to give yourself to a partner you trust and respect so they can appreciate playing with you.

dealbreakers — I've resisted putting negatives in my post, but I figure I can save some time by mentioning this stuff up front: no smoking/drugs, no Trump, no anti-science (anti-vax, flat earthers, etc), no hardcore religion, and the big one... no kids now or in the future.

If you're still interested, send me a message!