• messages that are just a greeting will be ignored. i.e., "hey/hi" or "what's up/how are you?". we're not here for small talk and i don't want to waste any time replying to messages where i have to fish for information. if you're going to DM me and your profile is blank, please include some basic information. an ideal first message would include the following: age, gender, location, why you're messaging/why you think you'd be a good fit for what i'm looking for.
• we've already spoken and i've found reason to believe i wouldn't enjoy pursuing anything with you, or you've provided photos and there's no attraction.
• i just haven't seen your message yet! there are hundreds of them i have to sort through every day. please be patient!

thanks for reaching out :)