Profile: How do I interact with this profile? The reason I made this profile is because I am lonely and sexually repressed. Throughout my life, I have struggled to connect with women and form relationships. I am trying to get better at this, and I do think I have made considerable progress. In the meantime, I have sexual and emotional urges that I must acknowledge. This is the main reason I have this profile, and this is the main driving force behind my interactions with my profile. I have a strong desire for sexual and emotional attention, and I use my reddit profile as a means to sate this desire. I don't want to leave these desires unchecked and end up with it fueling an irrational bitterness towards women. I still believe that my sexual desires are a vice, and that indulging them is unhealthy. However, they are a vice that is far more dangerous to leave unchecked. That being said, I still try to find virtue in this. I don't want to spend too much of my time here, but if I am spending time here, I intend to make the most of it. I want to make interesting posts, meet interesting people, and get more from this than just the sating of my vices. And I will expand on that further in my profile.

How do I prefer other people to interact with me on this profile? I want people to approach me with respect and interest, and I want to be held to the same standards that I hold others. Expanding on respect, sometimes sexual compliments make me uncomfortable. Sometimes they do not. I have noticed that the a compliment that uses the active voice is more likely to make me uncomfortable. And a compliment that uses the passive voice is less likely to make me uncomfortable. For example a compliment that focuses on the desire to suck my cock could be written with the active voice ("I want to suck your cock.") or with the passive voice ("You have a very suckable cock."). Honestly, I would not be offended by either of these, but I think it shows how the active voice is much more direct. And if someone uses the active voice to detail a very elaborate fantasy or their desire for me to perform a kink which I am not interested in, then it makes me feel uncomfortable. And especially if someone starts the conversation like that. The majority of people who send me a chat request that I do not respond to are people who start their message with a detailed or kinky compliment that is written using the active voice and includes a topic that makes me uncomfortable. Like, in terms of dirty talking, passive voice is the foreplay, and the active voice is the good stuff. So, like, if you start with the active voice, it comes across as a bit aggressive. Honestly, this was something I learned that has made me a lot more confident giving flirty or sexual compliments to girls, and I don't think I would have learned it if I hadn't received compliments that made me uncomfortable. So, yeah, this is not something that is taught very well, and I wish it was something that was better communicated. But anyways, on to interest. I like when people approach me with interest. I try to put a lot of myself out there so that there is lots of me that might catch someone's interest. Please, when you reach out, tell me about what interested you in me and share interesting things about yourself. That helps me get to know you. I do want to try to get to know everyone. We might not have mutual interest in each other once we do get to know each other, but you never know until you try.

Interests: This is pretty much just gonna be a list: card games, card design, cardistry, card magic, collecting playing cards, patterns, ecology, microbiology, birdwatching, reptiles, biomechanics, Columbo, westerns, warren zevon, drawing, herbs (like basil and mint), cocktail mixing, gin, bitters, cool bugs, spiders, desert ecosystems, mountain ecosystems, grassland ecosystems, writing, wordplay, rope, knots, swimming. (Probably more. This section might get updated sporadically.)

Pictures: So, my goal with my pics is to express my sexuality, express my personality, and to improve my picture-taking abilities. I want to get better at understanding composition of photos, how to create focal points that draw the eye in, and how to use lighting. I still don't understand lighting. I just do not get it. I think it has to do with negative space, and I don't get negative space. Art is hard guys. But yeah, a lot of the pic taking is essentially doodling. Not all of it is gonna be good, but it helps me develop intuition, which helps me improve. And that's the goal.

Sexuality: So, I'm a straight guy, and I am also much more submissive than I am dominant. I also have some pretty strong exhibitionist tendencies. I'm pretty inexperienced in real life, so I haven't tried many things, but I'm very open to trying a lot. And I've experimented with a lot of things online. I have done some self-bondage and I really enjoy that. I also enjoy body art and body writing. And I enjoy roleplaying quite a bit. Those are the things I have experimented the most with on my own or online, and I enjoy them. I also have a bit of a mommy kink. But yeah, idk, that's kinda a broad overview. Feel free to ask more questions if you wanna know more.

Other platforms: I have a discord and a telegram. Reddit chats is probably the most reliable way to chat with me though.

I think that's it. If you have any further questions, feel free to comment below. Thanks for reading.

Oh also, upvote more posts. Not just mine, but everybody's posts. I want to make people happy with this, and that includes other people who post. So, yeah, be happy, be kind, and let's try to make others happy with our kindness.