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I love meeting new people. I love chatting with people, but there are some things that I don't like. I know the title and the post itself make me sound entitled, but I hope that if you read this you realize I'm not asking for much. Also, the majority of people won't read this, so if you do, consider it a tip maybe?
- Just "Hey"s. This includes "hey how are you", "hey wyd", "you wanna chat" and things like that. I don't know what to answer, and I receive maybe 50 messages that are all the same. I can't and won't answer to all of them.
- Calling me baby/babe/honey/love/etc. is a sure way to get ignored. Also calling yourself daddy or alpha. No thanks.
- Please include your age. I prefer chatting with people in the 24-30 range. That doesn't mean I'll never answer to someone outside that range but it can be difficult.
- Your dick is not as good as you think it is, and even when sometimes I'd really like to respond to tell you that, I think I'm fine with saying it over here. I don't really care about what you look like, at least at first. If you think you need to show off your muscles, I'm not your fan.
- "How's living in Spain?" I get it, we can live thousands of kilometers away, it can be fun. But again, I get this exact question repeated over and over, it's not original and not really interesting as an opener. It's cool, I love Spain. Also, "where in Spain are you?" Not looking to doxx myself haha
- I'm not giving you my snapchat or other social media just because you ask for them in your first message. I don't know why that would be expected.
Maybe I'll add other things when I think about it. Again, I'm not trying to sound entitled, but I get so many responses every time I post that I need to filter a lot. That also means it's just a numbers game. I tend to not answer to more than 3 or 4 people because then I wouldn't enjoy my time trying to manage them all, and those conversations might not last as long as I'd like either, maybe I felt we didn't click, or I clicked with someone else. That doesn't mean anything bad about you, at the end of the day I don't matter, I'm just one of thousands on this site, don't let what I think affect you.
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