❗ Important info; ❗ What language to use for my body?

~ I call my clitoris things like my "cock" or "dick" ~ The hole underneath I will happily refer to as my cunt, pussy, hole, etc. I'm not fussy ~ My chest? Well there's no need to worry about that because I've had top surgery. No tits here ~ Understand that I am very much a man. I'm not just an object for a fetish, and I'm not just a boyish woman. I have a deep voice, facial hair, and hair in quite a bit of places. If you're straight, I will not be your cup of tea, because I'm a man. Don't make it weird just because I've got a cunt

❓ You wanna send me a DM? ❓

~ Go ahead, my DM's are completely open. but here's just a little FYI about the sort of etiquette that will effect whether or not I actually respond

~ First; You should definitely introduce yourself! You're a human being, not a faceless picture and username. Age, gender, pronouns, etc. You don't have to tell me everything, just give me an idea about who I'm talking to!

~ If you're somebody with very little post history, and you send a very low effort message I'm probably not going to respond to you.

~ Nothing annoys me more than somebody asking for my snapchat. Let me be clear; Snapchat just annoys me. If we are talking and you want to connect outside of reddit, we can discuss other options that aren't Snapchat. ~ But if your first message to me is "what's ur Snapchat"? I might even block you. Even if I regularly used snapchat, why would I give it out to somebody I haven't even talked to yet???

~ If you are somebody who is very obviously a straight man? Not gonna respond.

~ In general, if you write a lot in your message I'm more likely to respond. A lot of my posts will kind of suggest a fantasy and I absolutely want to hear your thoughts. Don't hold back, it will not weird me out to look at your big message. it will likely turn me on, in fact.

~ If we are talking and you just kind of assume something about me without asking, I'm likely going to stop responding. Especially if its something that very obviously relates to some kind of fetish, like me wearing panties. Sure, they're hot, but that is not my first choice of underwear in the slightest.

~ Don't just send a dick pic without asking. Like, that's just basic internet etiquette, right? If we are talking, I more often than not would love to see them! But the important part about that interaction is getting consent first.

~ In that same vein: Don't just demand I send you a picture. I'm sure we can talk about sending pictures, but thats something I have to consent to first. If you just suddenly ask for one, I'm probably going to stop responding.