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Let me preface this by saying I'm not looking for an RP but for a conversation about sex. A chat about our experiences preferences, etcetera in regards to the topic below. A bit about myself: I'm 25, from the Netherlands and I have a long term boyfriend that knows I'm active here, just not the details. I have had relationships in the past too. I prefer to talk in Dutch but I can talk in English too.
What I want to talk about: I have a pragmatic view on sex. I think it's made into too much of a thing and something that should be equal all the time. I like the idea of having sex for practical reasons and view sex as something primarily for him/his orgasm.
I think in a relationship, since he's on average the one with a lot higher libido, sex is usually focused on his ejaculation, to relieve him. I think it's wrong that recently the development is putting more pressure on guys to be responsible for both his and her orgasm. I don't think that is realististic and I think it creates problems. For one since it makes it harder to do anything while it's better to do it more often but short than have him masturbating on his own to relieve himself.
Do you have a similar situation or preference. Then I'd like to talk to you. Do you have issues that relate to this or an opinion close to mine, then I'd like to talk about that too. Just a conversation about these kinds of things. See you there!
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