Non-Kinky

I enjoy the outdoors but not to an extreme extent. I'm not climbing mountains or going backpacking for days/weeks at a time. I do love getting outside, going on a hike, visiting parks, etc. I'm a huge fan of animals and spend time with them when I can. I do like visits to the zoo and have a silly cat at home who loves to run around. Health and fitness are important to me and part of my lifestyle. I go to the gym regularly, eat well, and spend a fair amount of time doing activities that fit that philosophy. I'm employed full time and have a job that I really like. I've got my own place and I live alone. I'm financially stable as well.

I'm more of an introvert and enjoy time inside just as much as out. I like reading (mostly non-fiction), mixing cocktails at home, or watching a show/movies to wind down the evening. If I'm going out, I love checking out new restaurants, cocktail bars, and maybe some concerts when possible. I've also spent some time in my life traveling to other parts of the world but haven't done that since before covid.

Kinky

I've been involved in kink/bdsm for nearly 20 years now and I've learned a lot in that time. Some general things I'm into are as follows, but is not limited to...

Listing the best ones first 😉

• Giving oral
• (Long Term) Orgasm Denial / Control
• Forced/Encouraged Bi
• Ruined Orgasms
• Chastity
• Anal-Only
• Anal Training
• Cum play / Cum Eating

And the others:

• Hands-Free Orgasms
• Humiliation
• Light Degradation
• Discreet Office/Public Play
• Public teasing
• Toys
• Milking
• Pegging
• Facesitting (receiving)
• Edging
• Desperation
• Dirty talk / texting
• Basic rope play
• CF/NM
• Some Watersports

Above all I consider myself an experimentalist and maintain a GGG mindset. I love trying new things even if it turns out that I don't like them. Having an open line of communication to make sure each person is getting what they need and is comfortable is of the utmost importance.

Things I am definitely not into:

• Blood
• Cutting
• Scarring
• Permanent damage / marking
• Needles
• Scat
• Vomit
• Extreme Pain
• Animals / kids / etc

Other items which can be discussed.

Values

• Communication and curiosity are at the top of list of things that are important to me. This goes for both kinky and non-kinky aspects of life.
• Being open-minded and open to new experiences is key and something I strive for
• Personal growth and trying to find ways to be a better person
• Laughter, playfulness, and fun are big parts of my life and I look for them in all things that I do, including kink/BDSM
• Consent in all things but more towards the BDSM side is always needed
• Privacy/discreetness is something I respect and want for myself as well as for anyone I'm involved with.