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Once You Get Hooked, Vanilla Sex is Boring

I have always had a dominant, confident feeling sexually with women, having learned a long time ago that it is perfectly acceptable to indulge submissive lovers in the manner that I innately desire when they occur in relationships and encounters that are enjoyable for everyone. I've discovered that women crave sex every bit as much and as kinky as men, but finding a lover who is not ashamed of her sexuality and who is sane, mature and discreet is admittedly not easy to find. I am selective to find the right fit of someone who I can get excited about seeing who will be equally as excited to see me and who wants to be valued, spoiled and thoroughly pleasured.

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I'm a different type of dominant lover than your standard definition -- I gain my pleasure in pleasing my partners in kinking and manhandling her so she can attain a depth of pleasure she's never felt before despite her intellectual mind telling her she shouldn't be getting so completely turned on. It takes a certain type of man who is perceptive of his lovers needs and desires. If my lover enjoys rough sex wanting me to spank her ass, tug her hair while she is being pleasured hard and orally pleasing her ass and pussy with my tongue while I finger her -- I try my hardest not to disappoint her, all done in a safe, caring, sensitive, but firm manner.

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Nothing is more pleasurable than tonguing my lovers ass.

To be truly submissive to me, and also keep things interesting, my lover will never know what is about to happen next. To know what to do and when to lead my lover to ecstasy to make her orgasm when I decide, and as often as I wish, comes naturally to me. A man needs to be highly perceptive and know of how to read and respond to his lovers every movement and reaction, so that in the end my leads are for her pleasure so she can feel and move interconnected closely with me in a deeply connected. Although the sex is rough and intense, afterward it is relaxing and deeply satisfying in a way that most people cannot understand.

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Sex this intensely satisfying requires a lover’s trust and for there to be mutual respect and mutual admiration which takes time to find the right fit. I build deep relationships with all of my lovers that is highly sexual, but which develops into a relationship that extends outside the bedroom.

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Lovers who can connect on this level can create mind-blowing, incredible, uniquely complex and truly addictive experiences. Once you’ve experienced kinky sex, it will be impossible to go back to any other kind of intimacy. Expect to be hooked, which can be a blessing and a curse because it is so hard to find proper playmates.

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To the right woman I am the easiest man to be with. I am a safe, sane, DDF secure attachment who is completely devoted and focused on your pleasure, with no threat, no whining or wishing there was more. Just perverted fun, devotion, and the exciting possibility of experiencing new sex and intimacy that you fantasize about and wish you could indulge in, but have yet to find the right partner.

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