Hey there fellow redditors! Just as a brief introduction we are a couple who has explored non-monogamy in various forms ranging swinging, hotwifing, and even a more KTP poly dynamic. While it's really hard to pin down any of those titles that really fits (though some of them feel like they fit less well), one type of relationship dynamic that we have both enjoy and really hoping to find and build is one where all 3 can be friends, and build an ongoing FWB relationship with her. Ideally we're looking for someone who is experienced in, or at the very least is curious in exploring group dynamics in some way.

And while sexual preferences and group dynamics are important, she's looking to build connection / establish friendship and rapport of some kind, rather than just looking for a hookup right now, this moment. Just as a pro-tip: if you're browsing the sub with your dick out desperately looking for someone to help you right now, probably best to put a pin in this one and come back for a well-thought response after you're finished ;). If you'd like to get to know us better and have a better chance at standing out in responses. We made a brief about-us post here: https://www.reddit.com/user/nsfw-adventures/comments/17uu7vt/about_us_some_general_interests/

What she enjoys / hoping to explore more:

• Being the hinge / center of attention can be nerve-wracking, exciting, sexy, scary and has been a wild journey of growth
• I'm very caring at heart and really like getting to know people in a genuine, unusual and unexpected way without some of the usual expectations. Really just like getting to know people, meming, bantering, and generally just
• More sex
• Would like to explore more: (after well established connection and friendship) negotiated free-use situations (i.e. tonight from hang-out to leave time, DP/DVP / overpowered

What he enjoys / hoping to explore more:

• She's long been very hypersexual. We've been together a long time and almost always had sex 1 a day, bet she's pretty voracious, and seeing her express that side of herself is a blast
• In that vein, he really enjoys "enabling" her sexual side or perhaps you'd say has something of a bad-influence kink. Want to set up a friend hang-out, with ulterior motives? Look no further
• Would like to explore more: Kinky game nights where she's the prize, finding fun ways to outlet bad-influence desires :)

What you enjoy / hoping to explore:

• We'd really love to know if you have any experience in ENM/group dynamics of any kind. And most importantly ideally looking to know more about your preferences and one or two things you're curious about or would want to explore yourself.

Good candidates for friends ideally would:

• Be single, CNM/ENM, not-cheating male, 21-42 years old Located in Seattle Metro Area (preferably north Seattle, Eastside)
• We’re located north of Seattle about 10-15 minutes out Lake City to the North, open to people all over the general metro Seattle area, but have found it easier to maintain ongoing friendships within a 30 minute drive (and a friend within biking distance on the Burke Gilman would be amazing!) *STI/STD free and willing to provide recent STI documentation (recent STI results will be presented to you as well)
• Kind, nonjudgmental demeanor (required), witty sarcastic, playful and sharp (bonus)
• Experience or at the very least interested in a MFM/MMF group dynamic
  

Ideally messages would have most/all the following:

• A little bit about yourself
• What you find interesting about this post, any shared interests.

The most likely to get responses, meetups in the past have had:

• Well-considered and articulated responses able to convey a decent personality match as well as compatible interests
• Ability to identify and express some of your desires as it pertains to M F M dynamic as well as to communicate and advocate for your longer term desires and needs. (negotiation & consent is sexy)
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Final thoughts/considerations: Sorry if this is a little overly-detailed and still free-form at the same time. We tried to combine thoughts and build a good post but maybe went a little over the top 🙃. Just as a general overview of our screening process. He generally skims first to filter out for low effort / troll / dick pick only posts and then over the next few days we'll each slowly work trough responses. Based on past posts there is generally a flood for the first 1-2 days and it's VERY hard to get even initial responses out to all worthy responses in the first few days, but we'll do our best to chip away at it.

If you read this far, thanks for reading ദ്ദി ˉ͈̀꒳ˉ͈́ )✧