If you've come across my profile after reading my comments on various subreddits, read the following before messaging me:

Yes, I'm a Domme. No, you cannot use any titles with me (common sense). I'm not into discussing kinks right away AND I take my time before I ask someone to be my sub but I'll say that I'm NOT gentle (although I do like some aspects of it). Yes that includes inflicting pain, humiliation, and degradation. But I'm definitely not into cuckolding and sissification (hard limits). Just to save everyone some time.

I'm looking for an actual meaningful relationship, not just a casual dynamic. I know it's hard finding someone online but I did read about a few success stories of people finding love on reddit so that keeps me going :)

I'm potentially open to relocating if the connection is incredible, but not any time soon (at least not in the next year), so that's why I'm looking online only for now. And finding subs locally has also been challenging for various reasons.

I won't reply to low effort messages, nudes, blank or new profiles. Include a photo of your face and I will gladly do the same.

I'm monogamous. So I won't engage with married or poly people.

I absolutely do require age (with identifying info redacted) and photo verification. I'll gladly do the same. I've come across many people who were hiding something and were dishonest with me so this is a very important part right here.