A bit about me and this profile.

This is my second throwaway account on Reddit. I threw away my other throwaway after believing I'd found something real that could drag me away from online smut. Sadly, it was not meant to be.

I'm a pretty normal guy who recently entered his 40's. CIS, white -- like, super white -- and finsexual. What the fuck is finsexual? Well it just means I'm attracted to femininity. Regardless of sex/gender.

Spoiler of my physical description if you're interested in that:

Physically I have a shaved head, blue eyes, red beard, and, according to my doctor, "am built like a viking" at 6ft tall. So take from that what you will. Personally I think I'm built like a middle aged dude who works out 4-5 days a week but still enjoys his hops a little too much and never turns down a slice of pie, but I digress.

US ET timezone (GMT -5). I love craft beer, sports, working out, time with friends, animals, and, ya know, writing about, discussing, and experimenting with meaningful perversions. I consider myself mostly dominant and land somewhere between Daddy Dom and Pleasure Dom. However, like so many kinksters I'm also a tiny bit switchy with the right Mommy and I have a deeply rooted sadistic streak that I love to tap into. But I am one thing above all else: One hell of a nice guy. Seriously. I pride myself on that. So please don't come to me looking for a stranger to be mean to you. That's not me. I need to know why I'm being mean to you before I can enjoy that in any capacity.

I'm always looking to talk to fellow perverts, so please feel free to reach out should anything in my profile catch your eye! I'll warn you though, I'm a bit of a bag of contradiction. I'm a bleeding-heart liberal, feminist, and activist who also happens to carry a serious misogyny kink and a love for a TPE relationship based on traditional gender roles. I abhor social media and what it's done to our society but I also secretly love how it's pushed women into a world of cosmetic surgery because I love the aesthetic it provides. I love the look of a plastic bimbo and all the elements of bimbofication and yet I can't bare to spend more than a few minutes alone with a stupid person. I swoon when I see the look of passion and fear in my submissive's eyes when I slap them across the face. And yet if I ever saw a man lay a hands on a woman in anger I'd be the first guy to step up and put him on his ass.

So if you're still here and are thinking about messaging me, I have a few dos and don'ts that I'd ask you to read:

Do:

• Be fun! I don't want to take life too seriously. I love exploring and banter makes that even better.
• Be safe! I don't know you and you don't know me. So please don't send me pictures of yourself off the bat. I'm going to assume they're fake and, to be completely honest, probably assume you're bullshitting me about who you are and what you look like. Which I get. We've all been burned by fake people. But let's not start off on that foot, shall we?
• Have something to say! I love conversation but nobody likes to do all the work.
• Be feminine! I don't care one bit about what's between your legs. Trans women are women. Fem Boys are a freaking delight. What you identify as is entirely your business and I'll love you just the same as long as you're femme presenting. And truthfully the more feminine the better. Tell me about the makeup look you did today. Send me examples of the nails you're thinking about getting and how much you'd enjoy running them over my neck and scalp. I'll fucking melt.
• Be honest. If you're attached, tell me. I don't mind that you are. Just ask to know where I stand and what I can expect from you in terms of time commitments.

Don't:

• Expect money. C'mon now. I love to spoil and provide for what's mine. But that doesn't mean I'm throwing my money at people online.
• Use Reddit chat. It sucks and every time I post somewhere I get half a dozen "X sent you a chat invite" notifications that I can never actually accept.
• Use honorifics. I'm not Daddy, Sir, Master, or anything else for you if we're strangers. I haven't earned that so please don't lead off with that.
• Ask me to feminize you. I don't enjoy that. I love feminine people but forcing someone into that position does absolutely nothing for me. I'm more than happy to talk about your journey if you're transitioning or something of that nature, I just ask that you respect that the attraction isn't there for me unless you're already femme-presenting in some way.
• Look for roleplaying. I don't have the time or the interest. Sorry :(
• Be scared! I'm not here to judge you. I honestly love nothing more than being a safe place for people to explore their kink. No matter how taboo it might be (18 of course).

Full list of links: https://imgur.com/qHMG8rz