I think I’m going to use this space as a sort of journal. Some just every day vanilla things, some of my kinky journey and why I’m here. Only one place to start,

Who Am I:

Great question, one that I don’t have an answer to as I’m always evolving. At the base I hope I’m just a good guy, doing the best for the people around him. True for my vanilla real life as well as my online kinky side.

In real life I’m just the every day guy. I think I’m the guy you’d walk right by and never think twice. You’d never suspect my online life if we met in person either. I’m a family man, married, kids, dog, house, you know, the American dream (whatever that is). Life is great, can always be better but could be much worse as well. I have it good.

Then there is my online side. How I got here is a topic for another day. In short though, I’m an online dominant, curious about polyamory, and fascinated by kink. I believe online interactions make me a better person in real life and strive to do the same with partners.

I continue to be blown away by my personal growth in this journey (yes it has directly improved my real life relationships, no doubt about it). Many will tell you online bdsm dynamics aren’t real and should be avoided. In truth I think they are really saying they are for cheaters (and they may be right), but I’m here to tell you they are absolutely real. I’ve been lucky, but I also believe you create your own luck by your actions.

What does the future hold, I have no idea. I’m sure as hell going to continue enjoying the journey though. I just don’t know where the journey heads from here. Things change in the blink of an eye, this online world comes with great risk and uncertainty. Is it worth it? I want to say yes, but it depends what your willing to risk I suppose….