Hi everyone, sorry it has been a few days! We paused the arrangement briefly for a couple days due to some personal things in life. We're all okay ☺️ I remained caged during the pause, and I'm now on Day 10 being caged. The pause in role play was refreshing, as it gave me the opportunity to offer compassion and support my Dom in more ways than just sex. Additionally, it enabled me to experience living normal everyday life in chastity. We have started again. My partner and my Dom signed a permanent contract, in which my Dom has unrestricted creative freedom to control me however he wants. I'm looking forward to experiencing deeper submission and servitude to both him and my partner 😁

I'll detail what happened in topics, I guess. The sexy stuff is in Part 2 😅:

My Dom: My Dom and I are getting to know each other better more each day. The casual conversations we have help us trust each other, and it's kinda hot having normal conversations but still calling him "Sir" and "Master." We're both going through a little hardship in our lives at the moment, and each other's support has been most welcome and helpful 🙂 We have not done much sexual together since Day 7, but there has been a lot of teasing and brainstorming. Anytime I send him a cage check he starts to get hard, and I surprise him occasionally with body writing 😏 I'm looking forward to the next opportunity to help him cum. With this permanent contract, my Dom has a lot more freedom of control. I can't wait to see what he comes up with!

My partner: My husband, aka my partner, has been extremely supportive and is also enjoying this arrangement greatly. Chastity and submission was originally his kink! 😂 He says he is surprised and proud at how quickly I have become comfortable with long term chastity. Although, every time he goes into chastity he milks his prostate until he's empty and gets bored 😂 One night (I think it was Day 8 or 9) I say on the floor and sucked him off while he sat on the couch (more on that below). When he touched my caged cock I melted in his arms, and something... changed... in his mind 😂 He has since been insatiably horny, and I think he wants to keep me caged more than I want to be caged haha. He has been letting me serve him sexually almost everyday. My husband is the best partner I could have ever hoped for, sexually and emotionally. We have been very communicative with each other during this arrangement. We've identified problems and goals, come up with solutions, and provide constant feedback. Our relationship has never felt stronger nor more full of love and respect than it does right now.

The Cage: I'm getting really used to my cage. Some days I forget that I am even wearing it until I have to go to the bathroom. I have still been wearing it at work, and everyday it gets a little easier! I bought some black Papi jock straps from Amazon, and they have helped prevent chaffing and pinching. They are... unflattering 😂, but they get the job done. I want to buy some more, but gotta get some overtime pay first 😂 My cage is still a little big, so I bought a new cage from Cherry Keeper. It should arrive at the end of June. I'm hoping it is a better fit! Wearing the cage feels more and more normal each day. It's life an accessory or a piece of jewelry now.

My Goals: With the new permanent contract, my Dom now has the freedom to include workouts in our arrangement. Having an effective motivation for working out has always been a challenge for me. Weight has been a major stressor and self-esteem issue for me most of my life. When I was in the military I was in excellent shape, but the motivation was not healthy. A storm cloud was always over my head, and the consequences of not working out or not doing it well enough always resulted in punishments. My Dom, my partner, and I all discussed it and agreed that failing to workout in this arrangement will not result in a punishment. On days that I do a workout, I'll receive a small, reasonable reward instead. This way, I'll start to hopefully connect working out with positive outcomes, instead of negative ones. The other goal my Dom is helping me with is to focus on my studies. I'm teaching myself chemistry, microbiology, and physics in preparation for a career switch into water/wastewater treatment operations. I've been interested in the topic for a while, but just need the motivation and time to study for an upcoming certification exam. Not being able to jerk off and edge should help free up some time 😅🥵