Yes. The private group is still a thing. Yes I post there. I probably post there as often as I post publicly.

If you have 0 karma and no comment history. You aren't getting in.

If you post racist/bigoted/misogynistic things. You aren't getting in. I can't tell you the amount of people trying to join and leave sweet messages like "love your free lifestyle :)" and then on their page is bigoted transphobic or racist comments.

I get asked a lot. "Is it worth it?" And I don't even know the answer to that question. It's just a private group where I feel safer posting things. I might go a month without posting anything. If you comment on posts asking to be let in. It's not going to happen. Send a message to r/mybrotherareyou NOT u/mybrotherareyou . I barely check my messages/chats and typically they don't even load because I have so many of them. If you can't message the subreddit on mobile then do it on the computer.

When asking to join state your age, gender/identity, and why you want to join. This is not a subreddit for silent lurkers.