I've never liked it. I've never liked in media when the guy stands up for the girl so she's horny for him. The guy fixes the girl's car so she wants him. The guy punches out her asshole ex- boyfriend so she is filled with desire and sleeps with him.

I hate it

I've never related to it. If I want to sleep with someone it's because I want to sleep with them. I would feel very bad if I had to win over a man by doing tasks. No one should have to save the day or get free the princess and take her back to the castle to win sex. It sets a weird precedence. Now of course, someone being kind and thoughtful does create some desire. But it's because of that person's feelings for me and not the tangible thing. If my husband gets me my favorite food and I feel good and suck his dick. It's not because of the food. It's the thoughtfulness.

It's really sad because I've been intimate with men and they've told me how I'm the first women who actually seemed into it. Who actually seemed like I was sleeping with/touching them because I wanted to and not out of some transactional(whether that be trading attention or monetary things) situation. I'd suck their dick because I wanted to suck their dick and that made it way better.

Anyone of any gender should not have to win someone over. If someone is struggling to choose between you and another person. Let them choose the other person and get with someone who values you. You should WANT to sleep with your partner/person of interest because you want them.