Firstly, Happy New Year all! I hope you all got a nice kiss and good drinks.

Secondly, I want to address something I receive a lot. I'm not sure what your definition of sex is. Some people consider oral sex to be sex. Some consider anal to me sex. Labels aren't all that important to me. I've accepted long ago that I am sexually active with my own flesh and blood and whether be vaginally penetrates me is really not that important. All the feelings and developments we've gone through... we may as well have fucked. I feel we've emotionally fucked already if that makes sense. But if you consider him fucking my ass as him fucking me, then yes, we've fucked.

This has spawned a spree of, "let your son take your pussy unprotected and have his baby." I completely understand the concept of inbreeding being hot. I mentioned in a previous post that my uncle impregnated me but I got an abortion. But the process and positive pregnancy test was very hot. Someone fucking life into you is intimate and exciting. And the thought of a relative doing it is even more exciting. But I really do not like the idea of fetishizing creating life. Now if two people are ready to have a child and are getting off to the idea, that's fine. But having a child solely to fulfill a fetish is just weird and not healthy at all. I am a married woman in my 40s. My son is a young adult. Neither of us are in a place to raise a child. I have 2 adult children and I'm glad for it. I have no interest in starting over. I'm not in a place in my career or life to have a child. And I would never force my college-aged son to be a father, let alone a father with his own mother. How would we even explain that?

But don't get me wrong. When I'm alone with my vibrator I have fantasized about it. But I think fetishizing this to a real extent is not right. A baby is a whole life. They'll grow into their own person and you'll have to take care of them forever. And yes, I mean forever. If you're a real parent you know 18 years old isn't the end. That's not to say I spoil and coddle but you don't ever lose responsibility for the life you created. Creating life shouldn't be a decision based on, "Wouldn't it be so hot if we did that?"