I am only going off my life and interactions with this account. Just going off this account, any interaction I've had with another woman has been normal. Even if it brushes the realm of flirty and fun it is just that. But if I show a man any hint of that they become obsessed and immediately jump into sending dick pics or talking about spreading me open and fucking me right away.

As a woman in her 40s. This seems to be a fairly new phenomenon. There were always weird guys but lately it is way more. When I was a teen/twenties it was not to this extent.

Men complain that they never get to talk about sex with women or get laid. They complain about "male loneliness" but become unhinged when women are comfortable talking that way. If men could just be normal about women and sex they'd get it a lot more. Just talk to woman. Don't see every girl as a possible fuck object. Just talk and if it gets there it gets there. Any friend I've had sex with, that is how it came about. Sometimes I reply to DMs on here and 8/10 times it becomes crazy.

This is also now bleeding into normal life. If I'm out and smile at a guy for a second it can become a whole thing where they follow you around and try to talk for the rest of the night. If they find out I enjoy the same movie/show/game then they obsess and try to talk to me for weeks/months/years with poor flirting and graphic mentions of sex. I think the internet has ruined and skewed people's views on sex/relationships/social interactions.

Don't ruin a good thing. You all seem to enjoy this account. Don't ruin it. And I'm genuinely sorry to people who message with real deep/insightful things. I just hardly check because it's a fucking gross place in my DMs/chats

EDIT- all of this to say. I enjoy having flirty banter and it possibly going somewhere. A lot of women do. But we shut it down to avoid what I mentioned. It isn't the "jock" or the "cool guy" getting all the girls. It's the guy that gets girls and doesn't act weird about it.