It's been a while since I've got to writing, so I thought I'd introduce a new series; Memoirs of an Ivory Flower. Random thoughts that come to mind-- most things kink related, others not so much. Today, the art of role play is speaking to me.

For the past few weeks I've been pondering what 'role play' actually means. The oxford dictionary says: act out or perform the part of a person or character... BLAND, I know. This definition barely kisses the surface of the world of role play. I often use the word 'fantasy', not to be misinterpreted with delusion, when explaining my personal definition of role play. I truly believe that it goes beyond playing pretend. It's an act of selflessness and MAKE-believe. It's about giving into your partner/lover/mistress' deepest desires and offering it with sincerity. An example, the sissy kink. I've had men in my past degrade me for loving this kink. "I'm not gay! Why would I do that?" or "What the hell is wrong with you?". Any kink that your partner has neither changes nor undermines your sexuality. It's about the act of service and selflessness. So long as you aren't sacrificing your safety or well-being, it's about falling so deep into them, that you discover pleasure in pleasing them. There's nothing more unattractive then someone who knows EXACTLY what you desire, but refuses to give it to you. In the infamous 'paraphrased' words of Destiny's Child: whatever you're not fulfilling, another fella is willing. So I challenge you. Whomever you are, wherever you live, to whomever this speaks to, fall deeper into your persons desires. You might just unlock a level of pleasure and ecstasy that you never knew existed.

- Miss Ivory