I'm often asked why I can be so cold. It's not that I'm cold, it's that I'm direct and precise in what I want. The beginning stages of the D/S relationship with me can't be gumdrops and roses off the top... I need time. Do you truly want me? Are you genuinely willing to serve? Or... are you using me? These are all questions that run through my mind. If I give you my time, my energy, my thoughts.... often times my heart follows. If I know it's a fling, the ghosting doesn't sting... as much. I've often given more of myself than I received, the consequences were almost dire. So now, I wait. I watch. I test. I refuse to be misled into rabbit hole of deceit and false desire. The right one will last. And with this, I bid those wandering hearts safe travels and send a kiss into the stars.