I really wish things were like they were almost 30 years ago. You could chat with someone and get really into a sexual groove online and then make the decision to call one another. I honestly miss the phone sex I had all through the 90's. Hours of conversation that started as just that. Then it would drift into a lot soft moans and very erotic talk. You both would reach orgasm and then participate in a form of afterglow after it was all done.

Back then it was also very easy to find a person in their mid to late 40's and into their 50's. The age that I am at now. Now days you are either locating people who don't want to talk over the phone or through some kind of chat feature or you find the person who is using Onlyfans, sexpanther, nightfirt, or some other form of monetizing the whole thing.

***sigh***