UPDATED IN JUNE 2021

Hi babes :) Thought it was a nice idea to introduce myself here so you can get to know me better. I was born in Italy in August 1988 - Leo sun, Libra moon, Sag rising, Aries mars, and Cancer venus for those who are passionate about astrology and birth charts - and grew up there. Moved to California with my ex-husband at the end of 2015 and I decided to move to Texas after divorce, in August 2020. I met u/tinyrickinthehouse less than a month after moving here and we've been inseparable since then.

My transition from prude monogamous woman to hotwife and swinger

He asked me on our second date to be exclusive but he also mentioned he was coming from an open relationship with his ex-wife and I told him that it wasn't for me. I've always been monogamous, very insecure, jealous, and romantic, but that was ok for him, we were both looking for a partner for life, to start a family with, and we were already pretty much in love - I never believed in soulmates until I met him...

I didn't ask him for details about his open relationship until he started opening up about it after 2 months together. In the beginning, I thought he meant something like a polyamorous relationship or like total freedom, I did know nothing about all this stuff. He told me about the lifestyle, I was scared as hell but he had the patience to respond to all my questions - I had a lot, lol! - and the kindness to never push me. The factor that intrigued me the most, in the beginning, was the possibility, for pretty much the first time in my life, to explore my sexuality with a woman. The more we talked about the lifestyle the more I craved boobs to touch and pussies to eat 😅 but I wasn't ready to share him.

Since he was in the lifestyle with his ex-wife, a lot of his friends in town are in the same community and we were invited to a house party before Christmas. I showed up with a big house-in-the-prairie style dress that I made using flannel bedsheets from GoodWill and I brought a bra set I bought that same morning just in case I wanted to change. The idea was just to dance together and for me to get to meet his friends. I loved the atmosphere there, they knew it was my first experience in the lifestyle and I felt super welcomed and respected. I ended up having sex with my bf in a room with other people having sex, some were walking by cheering us up, it was a pretty great experience.

After that we explored with my best friend, his best friend, then at another party we both played and I understood all the things he was explaining to me in the beginning: how much the lifestyle creates a stronger bond in the couple, with total trust, no real jealousy...I don't think I could ever go back to being fully monogamous, I'd probably be jealous and worried he's hiding a crush from me! And it's not about having sex with others, it's about honesty and openness, we can talk about how hot is that girl or that guy and there's no judgment or shame in anything sex-related. And in June I also realized I cared more about connections and affections with other humans than plain sex, so we jumped on the Feeld app and it's bringing us exactly that. And just to clarify, we never date separately, we're come in bundle :D

About me, but NSFW

I love pleasing women and men I feel attracted to, I loooove dancing and giving lapdances, feeling small and overpowered, being choked and dominated - some slapping is welcomed. I don't orgasm that easily with sex - I'm almost always able when I'm playing with myself though - but I always cum with anal. My first orgasm ever was actually trying anal! I have a breeding fetish (just with my boyfriend, strangers asking me to breed me creeps me out!)- since always wanted to be a mom, having him me whispering in my ear that he wants to make me pregnant cumming inside me is probably the thing that drives me crazy the most - and a small gang bang fantasy...I want to please as many men as I can at the same time.

Even in the lifestyle, like in normal life, I'm rarely attracted by looks, you can be a hot dude with the perfect body but if you're not vibing in the right way, it's a no for me! Apparently, I'm also demisexual, meaning I need to build a connection with someone to be interested in them sexually. For this reason, I’m more for FWB than bulls. I was lucky for my first serious mmf experience, we found a guy with a great personality and vibe and also a perfect body (proof here, had to snap this pic of him and my bf, it was a view I never want to forget...especially when I'm 70, old and ugly lol).

Normal me

My main career is being a wedding and boudoir photographer, but I realized what I wanted to be at 29 years old and only started recently because of immigration/green card/divorce/moving/life events that prevented me from fully focus on it. So I still work 30 hours a week in the service industry.

I feel like I had multiple lives! I was in ballet school for over 17 years, was also a teacher for a few; then got passionate about food and ended up having a cookbook published in my country; after that, I started exploring sustainability especially related to fashion, became a passionate thrifter, bought a sewing machine and taught myself how to sew garments. I love pets, dogs on top of everything, I want one so badly, but also considered getting a snake!

I have 12 tattoos, most of them got in Europe, I usually take advantage of my trips back home to get tattooed by artists over there - they don't expect a tip 😅 and since I lived in the San Francisco Bay Area for 5 years, it was way cheaper to do that there. They all have a meaning (other than a small one on my ankle that I'm getting covered, lesson learned), and I believe that they can be an amazing way to manifest things in your life and/or help you through transitions. Maybe I'll do a live or film a video on my OF to show you all my tattoos, tell their stories, and how they changed my life.

Here are some SFW photos of me in case you're curious.

How to support me

Upvoting and commenting on here let me know that you appreciate what I'm doing and keeps me motivated! I only started doing this for real on March 1st, 2021, but if you want to go the extra mile, you can subscribe to my Onlyfans where I post exclusive content, chat with anyone (in the limits, I work full-time, I have a business and make content, so my time is not a lot) and offer custom pics and videos, and a few more things.

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