Hi. I'm a man, 31, who found himself in Wyoming years ago. I came from a small town in the PNW, where everyone knew everyone else's business. Growing up Christian and conservative made sex a very dirty word, let alone kink exploration. It was just for a husband and wife in their bedroom, and it was not to be talked about.

After years away from that town, that life, and my family, I began to discover my own curiosities and kinks. I was lucky to be, for a time, married to a woman who wanted to explore these with me. It was a very transformational time for me.

I still remember the first time we had another man over to join us. We were both so nervous, but once the three of us sort of settled in and got to know each other, pants came off, hands got comfortable wandering, and inhibitions began to melt. It was an amazing, wild, and magical night for all of us.

As I continue through this crazy thing called life, I hope to find more out there like me, hopefully nearby, to keep exploring the world of sex. There are people in my life who I love dearly who will never know this side of me, and I think that's okay. But it's time for me to be who I am and find those who enjoy it, too.

For those of you out there who have discovered your own sexual awakenings and adventures, I wish you the best! As long as everyone consents and no one is harmed in the process, live your best lives, friends!