i immediately saw this meme and knew to drop that shit here like you crank the aux up.

https://preview.redd.it/zq4n3q9o3k8d1.png?width=848&format=png&auto=webp&s=703bdd5cc369ae43ab5d7adab33384798d0ce384

honestly i get very enthused about the entire lifestyle aspect of life and relationships and identity that i am just as enthusiastic as this probable tribe queer guy is here. and even if i was talking into a void i would probably approach the podium like this every time because it's a hyper interest of mine.

in one of my past relationships i had a daddy that just really loved being very publicly out to everyone and anyone online. and honestly reflecting back on that time it was really weird to have my vanilla friends who really don't fuck with this world or identity in on it to the degree they saw.

it's one thing to where your partner you are with is always daddy regardless of where you are at be it the grocery store, at work, around your family, or if you have kids at a school function or something...but it's quite another to just be so frank and out with it in these same offline and online spaces. i found i tend to like a bit more discretion through that experience when it comes to how it plays out amongst others.

i had a few friends though that said it made 100% sense knowing me. and that they can see what that actually means now and before they saw me like that they didn't quite understand it. i was a gothic lolita fashion person for decades and that community gets a weird conjunct into the little space without respecting it's differences and the different actual age groups in the community and some people who have no tact don't understand the appropriateness of how to frame that in mixed non kink spaces because people be weird people be awkward people be clueless. so some of my friends were aware in a negative light about the whole shebang but ended up saying oh i completely get it now.

which i guess was kinda cool but i also don't really feel the need to be a poster child for it either. i'm not I'M OUT AND I'M A FUCKING BI POLYAM WEIRDO ACCEPT ME NOW in my life outside of kink or about the other parts of me either...i've met throughout the years of growing up and growing into all these different alternative ways of being people who are very I AM THIS YOU MUST ACCEPT ME AND YOU MUST ACCOMMODATE AND KNOW...but i've never really been on that kick.

so for me talking to 'void' isn't really a bad thing. it's nice to have a zen black hole to create and talk and disseminate and spin my little spider web tales in.