1. sending unsolicited pictures of your genitals to me will absolutely never get my attention. your message will immediately be ignored. so you can stop doing that.

2. sending “hey” “what’s up” or anything of the sort with no substance will not get my attention.

3. comments on my posts that say “dm me” will never get a response.

4. making the presumption that i am looking for a hook up will never be correct. i don’t do quick hook ups. if i post looking for a specific scene and you respond you will be vetted and it will be weeks or months before we meet in person if you’re lucky. so don’t bother asking if i want to meet “tonight”

5. if you are under the age of 25 you’re too young for me so please save yourself the trouble.

The amount of messages i get when i make a post is always 50 . i quickly weed through messages that fall under any of the five listed points above. if you’re in it for the long game and genuinely have an interest in being a long term play partner, send me something to make you stand out. most of the messages i get are from men and im usually more interest in women. you have to be extraordinarily interesting as a man for me to consider a meet up.

Please respect these boundaries.