This was originally posted on a Christian subreddit. Instead of engaging with my post, some users ridiculed me and told others to "vet better," as if they couldn't judge for themselves. It was because I posted a SFW request for a cafe companion on a NSFW subreddit targeting locals. It was odd to me since they disregard its harmless intent. One person defended me, asking if they even read it, but another dismissed it, saying it didn’t matter since it was on a NSFW page.

To avoid further drama, I deleted my original post. I just want to keep things simple and will share my introduction on my profile instead.

26F, Philippines

About me: I’m a 26 year old charmingly chubby single mom who likes to dress up and be a girly girl. I’m 165 cm tall but 5’7 in heels. I’m a thoughtful person who shows love through acts of service.

Area of study/work: I’m currently a student, set to graduate in July 2025. I also have experience working as a graphic designer from home for two years during the pandemic.

Hobbies/interests: I love immersing myself in learning. History, science, and technology are my interests. Singing karaoke, exploring different cuisines, and indulging in self-care are also some of my favorite pastimes. I’m trying to learn new languages such as French and German, and exploring passive income streams. Quality time with loved ones is always a priority for me.

My Christian journey: I was raised Roman Catholic, and my family and I attend mass every Sunday. My mom is a devout Catholic who does the novena every Wednesday and I try to join her when I can. While I appreciate the traditions and practices of the church, I find a personal relationship with God to be more fulfilling for me. I’m a bit more flexible in my faith, but that doesn’t mean I don’t participate or practice.

What sort of person am I looking for? I’m looking for a reliable, caring gentleman who is committed to personal growth and will set a good example to our kids. A gentleman who appreciates all that I have to offer, from my intellect to my playful personality.

I appreciate a guy who knows how to dress appropriately for any occasion and has a lil’ traditional mindset with old-school values. Non-smokers are a must, and tattoos, well, some or none are cool with me. It’s important that you can accept that I have a 4-year-old princess, and I need someone who genuinely likes kids. Let’s not waste time being online chat buddies forever—I’m looking for someone who’s willing to put in the time and effort to meet in person.

Age range: 23 to 30

Would I be willing to do long distance/relocate? Ideally, I’m looking for someone who has the flexibility or ability to travel to me. While I’m open to the possibility of long-distance, keep in mind that I’m not a fan of being online chat buddies forever—I want to put in the time and effort to meet in person. I want to create meaningful experiences together beyond the virtual world.

I’m all about sharing my day and comfortable with exchanging photos or doing video calls. Attraction is important, so let’s be real about it.

Let’s engage in thought-provoking conversations. Don’t be shy to share what you’re like—I appreciate genuine connections. I may receive a lot of messages, so I can’t always reply right away, but I’ll be online, so DM me soon! 💗