Preamble:

Questions like, "how far along into your transition are you," belie a fundamental misunderstanding of trans people

Being trans isn't a linear thing, with a progression & checkpoints that people must go through to achieve that thing

Not all trans people relate to their gender the same way, not all want the same things; it's just as varied as what it means to be a cis woman, even more so

Moreover, for many of us, our gender isn't determined by a "transition" process. Personally, I see myself as having been a woman my whole life – just having taken a few decades to realize it

So questions phrased this way can make people like me feel misunderstood, unseen, reduced, etc., before even answering them.

A better question would look like, "I see that you're trans; can you tell me about your gender? How you came to find it? What it means to you? What your body is like?"

Wording can be important, because it frames things dramatically.

Answers:

If you're asking how long I've been a woman:

All of my life – although I didn't realize it until my mid-twenties, when I was finally surrounded by friend-groups of other queer people, and given a new lexicon through which to understand myself.

If you're asking how long I've known that I was a woman:

About twelve years, since 2010.

If you're asking how long I've been living my life openly as the woman I am, the answer is

Over a decade, at this point – I came out pretty fully within a few years of finding my gender.

If you're asking how long I've been on hormones, the answer is:

Since 2013, by which point I was living openly as the woman I am.

If you're asking if I've undergone any surgeries, the answer is:

No, and I'm not planning to. Are you? Do you feel a need to surgically modify your own body to make yourself more "womanly"? No? Well, neither do I.

If you're asking if I have titties, the answer is:

Yes. They're about C-cup. I grew them myself, just like you likely did. My body responded to estrogen by growing them, just any other woman's. Most woman's estrogen happens to be made by their (functional) ovaries; mine don't work that way, so my estrogen happened to come in a pill form. Same difference, all things considered.

If you're asking if I have a vulva, the answer is:

Yes. All people have the same parts; they just happen to form differently while your fetus develops, depending on hormonal factors. All genitals are the same parts, just shaped differently. I relate to, refer to, and use, my genitals as a vulva – so, that is what they are.

If you're asking if I have a pussy, the answer is:

Yes. Its labia happens to be sealed shut; all the better for tease & denial purposes :)

If you're asking if I have a g-spot, the answer is:

Yes. And you can stimulate it by fingering me with pressure on my sealed-shut pussy, or even through anal penetration.

If you're asking if you can penetrate my pussy, the answer is:

Not really. Sealed shut as-it-is, it's not well suited for that – although it does enjoy pressure where it's sealed. Think of it as a permanent shallow hymen, if you'd like ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If you're asking if I have ovaries, the answer is:

Yes. They happen to be external, having descended my fallopian tubes into my vulva, which makes them easier to torment. They're not very functional, but I don't really mind that? Less messy periods and all.

If you're asking if I have a penis, the answer is:

No. I do have a clit, though. It's elongated, so I can understand you seeing at as a penis. But it's not one – I don't use it as such, it doesn't like the same things penises do, and so I don't call it one.

If you're asking if I use my clit for penetration, the answer is:

No. I have no interest in that, at all, and it's not a thing I do. Have you tried to use your clit for penetration? If it's a clit, it probably doesn't really get firm enough for that, right? And it would be awkward? Yeah, same with mine.

If you're asking if I like my clit to be stimulated, the answer is:

Yes! Vibration feels really nice, and while I don't stroke it like a dick, fingering, rubbing, all feels wonderful.

If you're asking if I like blowjobs, the answer is:

No. Sucking it like a dick does nothing for my clit; it feels bad, tbh. Eating me out, though? And licking my clit? That feels great

If you're asking what makes me cum, the answer is:

Clitoral stimulation, like most girls. Other stimulation to my vulva can feel nice – teasing my vulva, g-spot stimulation, pressure on my pussy – but firm, rhytmic pressure on the head of my clit is the thing most likely to make me cum, especially when that sensation pulls on the very tip

If you're asking if I need to cum, the answer is:

Absolutely not. Honestly, tease & denial is a big kink for me, and I much prefer not to cum – to be left super horny after play. When I cum, I feel... empty, drained, etc. When I'm edged, though? I feel alive, I feel every nerve-ending aroused & eager... that's my preferred state.

If you're asking if I need to have my genitals involved to enjoy sex, the answer is:

No. My favorite kinds of sex often don't involve my genitalia. Being used as an oral service-slave is one of my favorite things – especially when coupled with denial, or even chastity. And that's just one of a myriad of kinky sexual & non-sexual play modalities that I enjoy: I do not need to have my genitalia involved to enjoy sex.