My gf (bi, 23f) misses sex with men. I'm (gay but a bit curious 27f) We've been together for a little over a year, monogamous. I don't think it has anything to do with me or is a reflection of me. She would have these desires regardless. I don't mind her having outside sex occasionally. However, I don't want her dating or building other emotional connections with people.

She said she just wants to have someone on the side that she can sleep with. But she wants to be comfortable with that person and be cool with them. I'm only ok with strictly sex.

I was thinking once every 2 months would be fine if it's just sex. She doesn't want to put specific timetables on it.