Thank you for viewing my profile. I'm jhadred which was created by slamming my fingers on the keyboard back in 99 when I needed a screenname for a game. I have no pronunciation for it so if anyone has a clue, please let me know.

I joined reddit to follow specific subreddits about some games and hobbies I like, slowly adding more, but with 2020 being what it was, I wouldn't mind using it to find friends and partners. Personally, I'd like to find people who are on the left leaning mindset to game with. People who are ok hearing occasional comments about polyamory and kink as well (I don't talk about it, but it is part of my lifestyle so it's difficult to have friends who are against it).

Here's a bulleted list of some things I'm into.

• Hobbies & Friendship topics/activities
  • Computer Games
    • Sandbox survival (lite) such as: Raft, Don’t Starve Together - (I mostly enjoy the food elements in games).
    • Cooperative FPS games or at least team based (player vs computer preferred) Overwatch for example
    • MMORPG style games
  • Board games (online at this time, primarily cooperative, some mild competitive)
    • Examples: Hanabi, Arkham/Eldrich Horror, Pandemic, Castle Panic, Forbidden Desert/Island, Space Alert
    • Mild competitive: 7 Wonders, Dungeon Lords & Petz,
  • Circus Arts
    • Aerial Silks as a hobby
    • Acroyoga
  • Gardening - Culinary herbs (Hydroponic mostly, due to an apartment with little direct sunlight)
  • Drink enthusiast
    • Coffee, espresso & roasting
    • Cocktails & Bitters
    • Gluten Free Beers, wines, ciders
    • Sodas & Shrubs
  • Anime & Manga
  • Amatuer cosplayer
  • Role playing games
    • D&D 3.5/Pathfinder
    • Shadowrun
  • Sci Fi & Fantasy books
    • Discworld
    • David Webber (Honorverse)
    • Jim Butcher
    • Esther Friesner
    • Robert Asprin
    • Steven Brust
    • I've been getting into various Korean and Chinese modern fantasy webnovels which is an interesting perspective
• Relationship information:
  • Not important if people want to be only gaming/activity partners except for the distribution of time.
  • On the Demiromantic & GrayAce/Demisexual spectrum
  • Polyamarous (along the solopoly spectrum and along the Relationship Autonomy/anarchy spectrum. The term “relationship smorgasbord” has a fair enough description on reddit. So does “ambiamarous”).
  • Into various kink & BDSM lifestyle elements (“sensual sadist” is the closest quick term)
  • Born and raised in Michigan
  • Asian (Chinese descent, 3rd generation)
  • Cisgender heterosexual male (probably a 1.5 on the Kinsey scale)
  • I don't have kids
  • I'm not married/previously married
  • I don't have pets due to allergies (though I did or would visit a cat cafe on occasion before covid)
  • Most current photo: June 2024 https://imgur.com/a/uOIDipJ
    • (June 2020) https://imgur.com/a/lKVYB7O
  • Most current video: October 2024 (Soon)
    • (October 2020) https://www.facebook.com/128152140699548/videos/1707317192783027