Wanted to start off with this because if I'm looking for people who are legit I should probably seem pretty legit myself haha. I'll probably update it eventually.

Hey howdy how's it going! You can call me Jay. If you've found this it's probably because of my desperate horny postings. I wanted to give at least a basic little thing about me and a little thing about what I'm looking for out there. If you're anything like me you like seeing someone who puts in effort trying to be an actual person.

I'm a (mostly) straight 20 year old guy currently living on the coastal side of Virginia, still with my parents. I'm currently working in the emergency services field and it's been mostly my life for the past two years. I would describe myself as probably the definition of awkward twink; literally under 140lbs to my great dismay. I've been pretty antisocial most my life, but I've been trying to fix that. I have very little experience with irl stuff of any kind, although hopefully I can change that soon. As far as hobbies, well... pretty much what you'd expect. If it's nerdy I probably like it. Video games, reading, table top games, etc etc. I'm also pretty into exercising and niche stuff like airsoft.

I should probably get to the sex stuff now though

If you find me and I'm here it's either because I was looking for an online partner to mess around with or because I was desperately trying my luck for something in person. As mentioned I have very little (one) experience with irl stuff. The last time I was with someone was over two years ago by now. For all intents a virgin but by technicality not. I've been wanting to build up some confidence for a while though, and start pushing myself some more so I can get better at that whole side of life. As such I'm obviously pretty timid but in that phase where everything is still exciting. Same can be similiary said for online adventures, although I'm definitely more forward and confident with those.
I won't really list my kinks, because you'll find those out quite quickly, but let's just say I'm generally a pretty soft guy, so anything that has to do with pain or degregation I shy away from easily.

What to know before dming me: If you have a blank profile with nothing on it I probably won't reply unless you seem genuine, so if you're the lurking type you're gonna have to be pretty convincing. I'm a dude, which means you could probably coax some irl pics out of me pretty easily, but unless it's for the intention of meeting/verification I don't show my face. It's reddit. Just be the actual person you say you are and I will adore you for that. It's a pain dealing with scam stuff all the time.