Hi, hello. For this site’s purposes, you can call me Bows.

The Basics: I graduated from college sometime ago with a BS in Psychology and a minor in finance. I currently work in finance.

I enjoy traveling - big trips, small trips - makes no difference to me. I frequent Savannah and Tybee Island. Costa Rica was beautiful, and apart from a small almost drowning incident, was a rather spectacular trip. I met some sloths :)

I had my tubes tied when I was 28. I do not want children of any kind (read that again..and then once more). My cat brings me all the joy in the world.

Ernest Hemingway said, “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” This is a quote I hold deeply. I have attended therapy in the past and will do so in the future when needed. I’m currently doing Ketamine treatments, which I find is offering me true introspection and continued growth.

I’m a voracious reader. I consume all kinds of literature - essays, biographies, fiction, nonfiction, mysteries, poetry. A lovely piano tune pairs well with a good book. I equally love movies and enjoy a little bit of every genre.

I’m finding myself getting more interested in artistic hobbies again - cross stitching, ceramics, glass work. I also enjoying baking when the mood strikes (I have now obtained a pro mixer!).

Past the Basics: Society’s expectations mean very little to me. I believe we should all reframe what success is and what it means. I live a somewhat hedonistic lifestyle in the sense that I do whatever I want whenever I want with whoever I want.

Perhaps it will then come as no surprise that I’m an active participant in the local Atlanta kink community. I identify as a masochist. I am a munch organizer (currently on hiatus) and attempt to attend other munches and events when able.

When it comes to a relationship, I am not sure if monogamy is the road for me. I can confidently state polyamory is not for me. An open relationship, however that might be defined, seems more my interest, but I will not entirely rule out monogamy at this time.

This may be edited over time, but as long as this is up, I am open to talking with anyone (my age up to plus 10 years) interesting.