I get a LOT of messages from a LOT of guys, most of them are incredibly lackluster and some just straight up rude. If you truly want to find a FWB that you enjoy both having sex with, and having an actual conversation with them this is the post for you. My current FWB found and messaged me on Instagram which immediately caught my attention way more than the hundreds in my Reddit inbox. The first thing he said were some super sweet compliments and he asked if he could take me on a date AND listed a bunch of cute potential date ideas. SOLD. We text back and forth all day and not just about hooking up. I personally enjoy being courted and being made to feel special/desired. I’m hardly interested in your “stats” or what your dick looks like. Send a face pic, invite them out to dinner, bring up a common interest. SOMETHING other than hurrrr urrr hot when can i fuck?? That’s all:333 mostly just wanted to brag that I think the position has been filled and I couldn’t be happier.