Hubby and I have been talking for a while about opening up our marriage for some nonmonogamous play. I have been the one pushing for this because since turning 40 I have been sexually insatiable and desperate for new experiences. I had signed up for Fet looking for events we could attend together but was surprised by how many people sent me messages right away.

When Hubby left me home alone for a long weekend, my loneliness and curiosity got the better of me and I started responding to the messages I had received. There was one person who described himself as a Pleasure Dom who responded right away and we dove into an intense back and forth conversation. I asked him what that meant and he told me, “being a pleasure dom means that I like to be in control and guide you, but I'm also very into making sure you are having as much fun if not more than I am.” Reading this sent chills down my spine and I squeezed my legs together and gripped my chair’s arm rest. As the one who was always pushing the agenda with my husband it was very enticing to let someone else lead me through some kinky exploration.

I sent him a few pictures and he showered me with praise and appreciation. He got me to download a messaging app and that night I just lost myself in sexting, having fun sending him the spiciest pictures and videos I had ever taken of myself. Since my husband was away and ignoring my attempts to get his attention with my spicy texts, my conversation with my new guy just never stopped. That night he told me to wear my sexiest lingerie like I would if he was coming over and gave me little assignments like taking a video while I looked right in the camera moaning for him and pinching my nipple. He gave me all the attention I wanted so badly and made me feel like a goddess. When hubby got home, I told him that I met someone online who I had been chatting with and asked him for permission to keep chatting. He was surprised but said as long as it stays online fine, I agreed but in my mind I already knew I wanted to meet him for real. A day or so later we were talking and I confessed that I wanted to meet him in person and that I wanted a D/s relationship with him not a one time thing. Hubby took that really hard, even though we had been talking about it, this isn’t how he thought it would happen.

In the morning, I could tell my husband was upset and I was starting to give up hope. I was ready to tell him I would delete everything and move on because my marriage is at the foundation of my life and I really don’t want to fuck that up. But Hubby pulled me aside and told me he wanted me to meet him. If this was something I wanted, he wanted to give it to me. I cannot tell you how incredible this felt. I’ve never loved him more or felt closer to him. Hubby wanted me to get it over with and meet him and see if this was going to happen. So I made plans to meet up with him after work the same day.

I met him at a Starbucks location halfway between where we live. I was so nervous. My heart was beating so fast as I parked my car. He said he was already there so I knew he was going to watch me walk in. One of the things I really like about him is that he is very into what I’m wearing so we had a lot of fun teasing about how slutty I would dress for him. I wore heels that make my legs look great and a soft short cream dress with just nipple covers and a g string on so you could see the shape of my body very clearly.

I gave him a hug hello and could tell there was a lot of electricity between us. He looked like his pictures and I was happy to find I felt as turned on by him in person as I was on my phone. I was so nervous I was blushing like crazy and having a hard time making eye contact. I picked up my coffee from the bar and had to hold onto the counter to support myself. We awkwardly talked for a while so I could get a grip and calm down. I could clearly see him checking out my body in my skimpy outfit, it felt kind of vulnerable and hot too. Then we took a walk to the parking lot.

I was joking with him that my girlfriend told me to take a picture of his license plate so we walked over to his car so he could show it to me. That’s when we came together and started making out. He held onto my hip bone really firmly so I could only go where he put me. He told me I was way hotter in person and how much he wanted me. He kissed my neck and whispered all the dirty things he wanted to do to me into my ear. He pulled my hair a little too just to remind me who’s in charge which released this loud groan from deep inside me I barely recognized from myself. He was touching my legs and rubbing my ass, lifting my dress up from behind to get a good handful of ass when the coast was clear. I was finally in the moment enough to tease him by saying I knew he was desperate to see what kind of panties i was wearing and he traced and snapped the top of my g-string to let me know he was picturing it in his head. I touched his cock through his jeans, he rubbed my pussy over my dress. He was teasing me about getting in the backseat of his car but I didn’t trust myself to stop and felt like this had gone as far as I was comfortable with for our first time. Before I left I took a quick picture of my panties in the car, knowing it would be fun to show him later.