Location

I am from and reside in Toronto, ON.

Of course I would love if someone was right here in Toronto as well! Although, you may be reading this and be somewhere else.

I am happy with a long distance relationship with anyone in Canada or USA! Ideally, in the long term, I am looking for my partner to move to me. Though, yweah! All happy to discuss!

About you

I find I’m physically attracted to white, tan, light skinned men. And I find I’m physically attracted to men who are incredibly hairy especially head hair, lol. As well as, I do not mind potentially speaking to a ‘Switch’, but I really don’t know if things would work out long term as I am 200% submissive.

About me

Physically

I am a 5’9, 26 year old (leo). I wear large blue glasses, brown eyes that just look like black demon eyes, and have honey/bronze skin. I am plus size/bbw and am actively working on fixing my health. Wavy/curly shaggy dark brown/black hair.

Non smoker (of all kinds).

I do not drink (just don’t like the taste).

I am vaccinated (don’t care if you are or aren’t, but just respect other peoples decisions).

Childfree (will always be childfree for the rest of my life).

Personality

I’m an anxious, frustrated, stubborn, and shy Individual. I’m incredibly methodical. I’m very playful, funny, wholesome, bright, but also biteful.

INFJ.

I try to be as honest and communicative that I can be with my romantic partner.

My love languages are physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation.

Daily Life

I am very career oriented and in a field that I thoroughly enjoy, love, and am passionate about. Yes, it is incredibly tiring and I work long hours during the week, but it also is amazing in many ways and I am grateful everyday for what I have.

On the weekends, I tend to be lazy with my cat. Side note: if you are allergic to cats, not sure if you should message.

I love trying new foods, exploring the city, going to farmers market, heading out to the zero waste store, cooking, and doing a lot of online organization and planning.

I live in a lovely home with my roommate and lead an independent life.

I will say more below about the d/s dynamic, but for me, the d/s dynamic is apart of my daily life with my partner. It’s not just in the bedroom, but extends outside the bedroom. It’s not a role-play, it’s just apart of our relationship and our way of life. It’s apart of our lifestyle.

Other random things/interest/hobbies

I love animals, true crime, podcasts, YouTube, TV, food cooking, learning, education, climate change, eco-ethical conscious, traveling, hiking, plants, organization, being a couch potato.

I am still young and trying to figure out a lot, but I like knowing there is a lot out there for me to do (grateful for that) and have a life outside of work.

Who and what I am looking for

I have a lot of control in my life (thankfully) and stability (thankfully), but I am desperate to give myself to someone, not just any one, but the person I know is for me.

I just want/need to give my body and mind to someone.

To have someone who controls me in ways that we agree upon.

Someone who I feel complete trust and security in.

I need/want my best friend.

The person who I can obsess over and being clingy to. I want to cling to my person and let them know that I need them sexually and emotionally all the time because they get the chemicals in my brain going.

I need someone who will push me and provide me guidance and advice and help and just being there for me when I need and want them whether it’s good or bad. Because for me, their opinion and advice matters the most.

I want my Daddy to love me and care for me and hold me and give me the structure I need in my life.

My ideal partner is someone who is saying “YES!” to everything I just said above.

My partner is someone who is open minded, easy going, and active.

I am a shy introverted person who needs my extroverted/outgoing person!

You are communicative, hard working, career oriented, independent, humorous, kinky, loving, passionate.

You are ultimately available emotionally and physically to be with someone in your life (I don’t expect anything serious in the beginning).

A few deal breakers

Please be monogamous. Please be taller than 5’10. Please no heavy cigarettes and weed. Please be 31 - 45ish. Please be serious about finding a submissive & ultimately a partner.

The Kinky Stuff Me

Well, in regards to myself, well, hmm.

I am a submissive; a little girl.

I do enjoy and need roughness from time to time or all the time (whatever my partner wants and needs), but I could never do gentle 100% of the time.

I would ideally prefer to be with someone who is ideally average (5 inches) or above average.

I’m looking for a DD/LG dynamic. I find that my personality is naturally very submissive little girl like so would do best with someone who not only is okay with that, but loves it and needs it as much as I do.

I want my person to control me; to have a total power exchange dynamic.

I have an incredibly high sex drive and hope to be with someone who is the same, but am okay with accommodating myself to my partners sex drive if it’s lower.

Just as I am your priority, you are my priority.

All I want and need is to please my person and make sure they know that I am theirs and they can do what they please to me and I will always love them.

I need structure. I need goals. I need someone to tell me x, y, and z when I’m unsure of what to do or quite frankly what to even eat. Set my day. Help me decide what to do during my free time.

Our dynamic is ours and no one can touch it; it’s our relationship that is invoked with a ton of care, love, communication, honesty, a funny safe word, and being each other’s constant.

My Hard Limits

Blood, scat, knives, diapers, etc.

My Kinks

Ddlg, cum, anal, toys, submission.

Of course, we would talk more thoroughly about things through chat.

I’ll give away one thing: the number one being penetration for me is my ultimate addiction. Again, because of that, it is the main reason I need someone 5 inches.

(I do have a bit of a breeding fetish, I guess, or moreso of a creampie fetish. I have a creampie fetish. Although, I am not looking to ever have kids. Thought I’d just say something.)

In the End

All I really request is that whoever does message me, please please please please say more than “hi” or “hello”.

If we speak and you aren’t feeling it, just let me know!! I hate ghosting.

If you messaged me and I never got back to you, please don’t hesitate to message again.