Seeking a monogamous LTR with someone single, DDF/non-smoker of any substances who is also very into roleplay.

Please note that I am looking to date my partner in a committed relationship and my preference here is within the context of that. I am not into any kind of ENM.

In the vanilla space, my hobbies range from books to climbing and enjoying the scenery. I don't game anymore but someone who'd carry me through daily dungeon quests regularly is among the most romantic acts for me. I am someone who wants to lift my partner up and receive that affection in equal return. I want my partner to let me know how they enjoy physical affection and I do my best to fulfill that. Compatibility is my priority, encompassing emotional, lifestyle, and values.

I'm constantly looking to grow in the connection to learn more about how my partner and I can work towards a stronger understanding of each other. Someone who has the capacity to support me through the process of change and personal development and vice versa. Change in life is constant and I'm looking for someone who can build with me a lasting bond built on mutual respect that continues throughout that change.

I'm looking for a LTR partner who is thoughtful, patient, and respects the Safe, Sane and Consensual protocol or a newer version of it as much as I do even if they've never done a scene. Someone I can connect with and someone who understands that safety is paramount. If you have an idealized version of what a partner should look like or act like or don't want to put effort into keeping a connection going, I am not the person for you.

The LTR partner/SO is very into roleplay as we'd start off mostly vanilla with kink-positivity. Someone who also wants to keep the roleplay dynamics in the lifestyle. The dynamics I'd be looking at incorporating into, from both sides, include roleplay seduction, begging and orgasm control. I enjoy the idea of wearing outfits and soft power dynamic roleplay.

I'd like to also have aftercare where we cuddle and I run my fingers through their hair and share how we feel after each session. And during, as immediacy is a necessity with constant check-ins. We are both clear on what we want to try or what we enjoy and can be comfortable expressing our limits in a judgement-free zone.

About me: I'm East Asian, 5'4", physically average, high libido. Switch who is not into fixed BDSM. My preferences lean towards someone who loves to give oral and someone of a similar ethnicity (EA or SEA), Caucasian, or Hispanic/Latino. Most importantly, someone who respects me as an equal and who I can mutually communicate with and be around comfortably. Trust and respect for each other are paramount.

Please be between the ages of 26-40 and be averagely slim/lean to fit, and have a comment/post history. I prefer older who give off a 'Dad' vibe, but most important is having compatible values and energy. No throwaway accounts or anyone who already disrespects my boundaries stated here, including my non-negotiables.

Basic non-negotiable requireds:

• Also local and childfree, DDF/non-smoker of any substances
• Active in a relationship and connection, not passively waiting to maintain ongoing communication
• Knows and Expresses what they like and don't like in the moment while open to exploring new ideas during sex and in life - aka immediacy in communication
• Between the ages of 26-45
• Willing to get tested for a full STI panel before any physical intimacy
• Similarly low body count under 5 preferred.
• Averagely slim/lean to fit body type
• Understands and respects discretion and confidentiality especially in early stages - no NSFW photos at all or photos of other parties
• Also drives and gainfully employed as am I
• Also works no more than 50 hours a week and has time for quality time together
• Into roleplay, ideally as much as I am
• Willing to share their attachment style and how that shows up in a LTR
• Observes some version of SSC protocol, preferable one that highlights that consent can be withdrawn at any time by either party for any reason and must be informed at all times
• Practices personal responsibility, consideration for their partner's boundaries and self-awareness of how past experiences may inform how they emotionally relate within the context of a relationship

Only responding to serious and thoughtful intros that contain all of:

1) some basic general details about yourself like what I've mentioned above for myself, including your age, relationship status, understanding of consent; and

2) what you're seeking as a roleplayer and your thoughtful reflection on what I've shared that matches the energy of my post.

I'd appreciate a SFW face and upper half body photo as a prelude to discussing meeting up. The picture is to gauge baseline visual attraction but consideration and respectn for me as an equal is the connection.