Mostly Advice for single guys…. (Borrowed and Edited to suit us) looking to hook up with couples. Just to be clear, we occasionally have time to play with other couples, single men and maybe someday the right single lady that is into us both. We occasionally meetup with people we meet online, and play is always together/same room. We've been in the LS for just over 4 years. Wifey is Bi, not into BBC, not a size queen and not looking to be hurt or treated like an object. Definitely no degrading names or gross play. Hubby is straight, not a cuck.

So please only reach out if you are a straight male, m/f couple or bi-female that's attracted to my wife as much/more than me.. Bi-Men, uncut, and BBC is just not our style, no offense!! And not seeking BULLS.

1. Work on your intro, whether it be online or in person. Don't just just say "Hi". Lead off with a greeting, compliment the wife, and share something about yourself to prove you are a human being.
2. When online, leading with a dick pic is generally a bad idea. If couples don't explicitly state they want a dick pic, then wait for them to ask. However, leading with a face or full body pic is a great idea.
3. Don't brag about how hard you'll fuck the wife or how big your cock is. We have a phenomenal sex life and thinking you are stepping in to offer a "better than your spouse" experience is foolish.
4. Be engaging to both halves of the couple. Compliment the wife, and be respectful and friendly to both.
5. Shower and practice good overall hygiene and grooming. If this needs further explanation, this lifestyle isn't for you.
6. Dress well. You don't need a $1000 suit but you should put your best foot forward.
7. Take rejection with grace. Couples talk about their bad experiences, but even if you aren't their cup of tea they might talk you up to others in the future.
8. Know your own limitations with alcohol, Whiskey dick is real.
9. Don't overstay your welcome. Read the room and understand when the fun is over. This will increase your chances of being invited back.
10. If you aren't used to condoms then practice with them beforehand. Safe fun is a must!
11. Be prepared to be rejected. A lot. There is a lot of single men acting like animals/losers/creeps/etc. that you have to overcome. It may not be you; it may be all of those other guys before you.
12. Ask about play style. Does she like it hard and fast, or sensual? What makes her cum, what does hubby envision from an evening together. And of course ask Where can you cum.
13. Be Patient!! Not pushy please.

If you made it this far, then you at least have respect of boundaries and that's a great 1st step. Message me or her or both, she is u/Curlsgirl824 .... commenting on her posts and mine will look good on your resume haha