Happy Monday!

My goal is to try to post more often, and really start to try and build something here. I welcome your comments, chats, and interaction.

So…one of the questions I get asked by pretty much everyone I chat with on here is “can I see you?” And my answer is always the same. I don’t send pics, sorry.

Most people respect it, but occasionally there’s an ass or two who make a big deal out of it.

So, I thought I’d post the explanation here rather than typing it out for every single person who asks.

Let me start with this….I despise social media! I think the concept of it is fine, but I hate what it has become. I envy those of you who are older and experienced life without it! That being said, I decided to try and use one social media outlet only, to sort of keep up, and not be a complete outcast. So I chose Reddit.
I made my first account when I was 17 and posted about the typical things, followed anime, cosplay, music, and other things. When I got to college, I started to dip into the more naughty side of reddit, and had a lot of fun! I posted pictures, some videos, and showed myself off (no face).
My sophomore year in college, I was home for winter break and at a holiday party with some friends. A guy I knew in high school came up to me and started chatting with me. He wasn’t my type then and still wasn’t at this point. He told me “you’re gonna sleep with me or else I’m going to show everyone your Reddit posts.” I was a bit shaken, and tried to play it off. He said he knows it’s me and so will everyone else (I have a couple defining marks on visible areas of my body). So I called his bluff. I rejected his demand, went home and deleted my Reddit account.
Well, he had screenshotted everything and sent it out to family, friends, everyone. My parents were a mix of supportive and pissed off. I got tons of emails. Lots of harassment. My life was hell for about 2 years before it finally faded. My parents moved from that town. I haven’t been back there since. There are still family members who refuse to talk to me, won’t invite me to family events, and won’t come to family events if they know I’ll be there.

So. I don’t post or send pictures. I use words. I’ve become a competent writer, and if you’ve read my posts, I don’t skimp on details.
I find words to be so much more erotic than pictures. So I use my words now. I will happily describe every inch of my body to you in graphic detail (I love to do that), but I won’t send pics. I also won’t ask for pics. I won’t refuse them if you choose to send them to me, but I won’t ask.

So…that’s the answer to that question. Long winded, but figured if I explained it, people would hopefully respect it.

-R