99% of the time it’s either because you didn’t include enough information / pictures to catch our interest, or we read what you sent and decided we weren’t compatible. Either way, it wasn’t meant to be. Keep looking elsewhere and keep plugging, there’s someone out there that’s a better match for you than we are!

It depends - sometimes life gets in the way and we just set this stuff aside for a few days/week/months, sometimes it’s because we realized you weren’t a good fit. We never ghost anyone we’ve agreed to meet up with, but until we get to that point, don’t get too invested in us (or anyone). Things fall through all the time in the swinger/Hotwife world. Nobody is obligated to keep talking (let alone move on to fucking), and that goes both ways (we’ve been ghosted more than once and we don’t take it personally). If you’re new to all this - be like us, don’t take it personally, if you want to be in this life for the long term it’s just a feature of the game you have to learn to live with.