Quick edit!: Right now yes, I am looking for a dom, someone who will care for me and I can care for, but I'm not looking for a therapist, nor am I looking to be your therapist. While I may want to vent about some of my struggles, I am not expecting you to solve them, nor am I expecting you to be my sole provider of support. I would expect the same from you. Another couple of things: I am a switch and non-monogamous, but both my sub and romantic needs are met, so please don't come to me with the expectation of exclusivity. Final note, I am not a bottom; I will not be putting anything in my butt and very much dislike when people say/imply they will.

So. You saw one of my posts, or I reached out to you and you're checking my profile (which is a great habit btw). Before we start anything, I have 2 core expectations of you. Arguably just 1, but I'm splitting them up to explain them anyway, so please read through to the end. Respect and honesty.

I expect to be treated with respect. If you, for example, call me something that you can reasonably expect someone to not be comfortable with, without first asking, I won't be happy. If I happen to be fine with what you call me, I might let it slide, but if it's something I don't like, I'll probably be gone like that. I will treat you with the same level of respect that you treat me. I'm hiding this message to avoid the people that jump to the bottom, ignore my request at the end and just tell me you've read this post. If I'm rude to you, ask yourself why. I expect you to respect what I've asked for in my post, I'm not going to respond if you don't fit the criteria I've asked for. I expect for my kinks, limits, and anything else I say, to be respected, and I will do the same for you.

I expect you to be honest with me. And yes, you could argue this is just being respectful, but in the effort of transparency, I'm splitting them up. When I say I expect honesty, I'm not demanding you tell me your life's story, instead, I expect to be told if what I'm asking is not something you're comfortable with. I expect to be told if anything I say is uncomfortable, even if "it's not a big deal". I expect you to be honest when I ask what you'd like, I don't want to hear you tell me what you think I want. We're both here to have fun, and so I need to know what you actually want so we can figure something out that will make us both happy. I will ask about kinks I think you might be interested in, even if it's not a kink for me, so don't say you're into it to make me happy and have us play through a kink neither of us enjoy.

Once you've read my post to the end, just send me "apple" and let's get talking! I'm looking forward to talking with you :3