Well howdy there, fancy seeing you around here. If you want to send me a message, tell me why I wear pink

I'm splitting this up into parts so you can read whatever floats your boat and save some time

1. General personality
2. Hobbies
3. Lifestyle
4. Ambitions/dreams/hopes
5. Kinks/sex life
6. Who I like talking to

Upfront, I'm totally willing to send SFW pics or videos of me doing my hobbies, but considering the subreddits I'm using this account for, I don't want to publicly post anything

I'm not the type to ask for NSFW pics, and it would take a loooong time for me to trust you enough to send any

1. General Personality

I'd say for the most part, I'm an (unfortunately) smart himbo/golden retriever. I tend to be kind and supportive, quick with a stupid joke or 2, and I just generally take it upon myself to care for others. That's why I cook for my friends when I host the DnD game I run for them. And I make sure it's good food too, like Tikka Masala and chicken bacon shrimp alfredo

Self improvement in all ways is paramount to me. Like I've picked hobbies just because of how it would train me

I tend to be very open with my emotions, happy and comfortable talking about the emotion of others, etc. I'm very guarded when it comes to things that are more personal for me, but good luck finding a pattern about that. I have zero issues telling people I had cancer at 13, no matter how long or short I've known them

I wear pink every Wednesdays as a Mean Girls reference

I'm also a pretty brash, direct, and sassy dude 😅. It's a fine balance between making sure people feel safe and cared for, while also making sure they know I'm giving them gifts, not serving them

Autonomy and consent in all forms, both from them to me and me to them, is paramount. Whenever I get a new plant, I always ask them what their name is and "listen", because it feels weird to assume their life started with me and they don't have a history and a name

2. Hobbies

Ah, my pride and joy. The short list is firedancing, poledancing, video games, racquetball, martial arts, knife throwing, Dungeons and Dragon's (actually Pathfinder, but they're mostly the same), cooking, and theater

I like having and adding physical hobbies because it feels like I am constantly honing my body into a better and better tool. The more complicated and difficult my physical Hobbies, the better I am just moving and doing in the world

I also like performing, obviously. It's fun to make art and share it. I prefer words and movement as my style of choice

3. Lifestyle

I'm about to finish up my engineering degree, and I've already got a job with a firm. Single, 27, and I tend to live a pretty hectic life. Very little interpersonal drama, but lots of things going on at the same time

I can't help myself, I just want to keep doing and being more 😅. But then I crash and burn sometimes. I am learning to take the gas off and just handle what I currently have, but it's a slow process

Other than that, I'm social with a large group of friends, and living in a college town means I need to continuously make new friends. Which I do, pretty easily

I'm a spiritual guy with some specific practices, but nothing that can be nailed down. I feel like I'm a very intuitive person who "listens" in a metaphysical sense. Like when I'm talking to someone, I have an almost tactile feel of the conversation, of the vibes. I listen to my gut and get super lucky way too often. I believe the universe conspires to make me happy

4. Ambitions/Dreams/Hopes

Hoo, long list, but I can summarize it:

I am trying to always improve and always get better with the goal of helping others. I used to volunteer at a food bank before school got too hectic, my career will be in renewable energy to fight climate change, and my personal life is just a huge story of trying to help others with mixed results

That's it. Like I can tell you how I want to refine myself, specific goals and ambitions, but this is really the heart of the matter: help people, don't hurt people

5. Kinks/Sex Life

Not too much to say here, other than that I think I'm a switch? I have been with 17 partners so far, and they've all been pretty submissive/bottoms. That's all well and good, but it felt like something was missing. So maybe I'm a switch?

Giving people pleasure and making sure they feel safe and heard is already how I operate outside the bedroom, so no changes inside

Outside of that, haven't had much exposure.

I know anal on me or for my partner is off limits to me, and I wouldn't appreciate violence or meanness towards myself or my partner. I'm a gentle, caring sort, I'd want to be that for a partner and have that for me. Being sassy and difficult does not count, bring it on or I'll bring it on

6. Who I like talking to

I think the best phrase is "dreamers and doers"

I want to hear about what put you on the path you're on. Where you want to go with it. Who you are, who you want to be, and why for both

I want to get to know you. And while that includes your hobbies and job and other more surface level stuff, there's so much more too.

Obviously we don't have to start there, I'm not demanding that. But there are people who don't think about this sort of stuff, and I just don't mesh that well with those sort of people 🤷‍♂️